Monday, February 28, 2005
I wonder what you do on your way home from church? I wonder this every week - please tell me. I drive north on 13th and go east on 28th to Hiawatha (north there to 35W). While on 28th, I turn on KTIS and listen to Dawson Macalaster Live. I can't stand it, every single week, yet it has to be the first thing I tune to. He ministers to youth on the 'hope line.' Young people call in, and then Dawson says, "Hey, man, it's really rough with parents, isn't it? But you know Jesus is a dude on your side, right?"
Then I turn to KNOF 95.3 and praise and worship to bluegrass gospel. The songs are all theologically non-porchy - full of "I can hardly wait until I die and wing to my mansion in the sky", but I truly love it. It is fervent, Jesus-loving music, and I praise Him all way home.
I also wonder...
What gave that stay-at-home mom in Alaska the nerve to write a mean letter to the editor about Carla in Books & Culture? You'd have to have the print version to see it, and really, it's not worth the effort to find it. B&C had printed an excerpt from The Myth of the Perfect Mother, and this mother wrote in about it. It's not that she didn't like the book - she didn't like Carla personally, and made numerous personal insults against her. My favorite? "Barnhill has missed the joy of motherhood." I could probably scrounge around and come up with some weak insult for Carla (maybe, "Her tastes in bathroom decor are a bit last century"), but never in a million years would it be that.
The writer said that in her mothering, she follows Mother Theresa and the Bible. She prays every day, and then serves her husband, then her children, and then works with household finances. (This seems very UNLIKE Mother Theresa, but whatever). She is never frustrated, at the end of her rope, or sad, because she follows the Bible.
It's kudos to Carla, because the author is more or less articulating the very theology and pressure that, even if it doesn't oppress the writer, does harm many women (the ones who like Carla's book)! I was disappointed because her letter was mean and personally attacking, but it made me even more glad that Carla wrote her book.
Sunday, February 27, 2005
The conversation becomes quite different when it becomes general and context-less, as opposed to a conversation about a particular community in a particular time and place, though both are important. I'm remembering my Mennonite church in Buffalo, NY. There were strong community values around simplicity, integrity in an inner-city context, and modesty. There was not much beauty displayed in terms of body or facial adornment, or decoration or art in the church space for that matter. There was a strong focus on living among the poor, doing well with what little money people had, and living out Mennonite values like simplicity and plainness. This way of life made sense in that place, and there was enough consensus that other issues were discussed with much more frequency than the matter of dress.
At Solomon's Porch, it's a quite different context. Many people do have either the discretionary income or credit to play with fashion, and understanding the body, and healing from past church repression and shame, are big issues here. There's more of a premium put on engaging culture than being separate from it. We've also generated a church culture in which creativity and expressiveness are valued - in art, decor, words, music, and the body as well. We need to negotiate the issues, and at times find boundaries, in intimate conversation together. I think we can talk generally about the issue sometimes, but most dialogue will be meaningful and less hurtful if it happens face-to-face, in relationships of love and discernment.
So, I'm glad that we blog about the issue, and think nationally about how we live as Christians. I'm even more glad, though, that on Friday some Porch ladies talked specifically about this shirt, and that skirt, these breasts (Colleen's are lovely) and that belly (Carla's is bountiful and healthy). No one claimed authority to tell other what's moral or immoral - instead, individuals who love each other asked interesting questions, listened to the answers, and agreed to keep living as community, loving each other in spirit, mind, and body.
See you at church tonight. I'll be the pregnant woman in stretch pants and a halter top.
I'm going to move on from this topic now...any final comments?
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years ago, young michon asked me why i dressed up for church - i told her that i didn't have many dates, so church was my only chance to look nice.
now, years later (when i have the boyfriend AND the self-respect to look nice when i feel like it and not when i feel like it is demanded by a dude) - i have new joy in dressing for church for the amusement and confusion of dr. paris. ;)
Friday, February 25, 2005
That sentence is going to be worked into my intro to anthro class somehow.
I don’t think this is a men-weak vs. women-beautiful issue; it’s mostly a cultural issue. Yanamamo men don’t have problems being aroused by breasts in public, because their culture doesn’t define breasts as sexual. Vulvas aren’t sexual either, but vaginas are. Penises may or may not be sexual, depending on what they are doing (intercourse is seen as sexual and private, but public speaking with penis in view would be fine). Our culture defines “sexual body part” in a particular way, and our visual attention and, to some extent, our sexual arousal, are socialized to correspond. Women revealing all or part of their breasts in church know they are being sexual, and may feel heightened sexuality/beauty, even if arousal isn’t part of it for them. Men being weak and needing to strengthen themselves is not the only issue. Public display of female sexuality is sexual, though not always sexy, for both men and women.
Given our cultural context, men could strengthen themselves individually and stop living in bad patterns they’ve been socialized in (Hugo). Men could desexualize breasts and let women do as they please (Brandon). Women could make choices based upon their knowledge of what men are like in our culture (Jav, Jimmy). Or women could defy the culture and do as they please, regardless of what men do (“Marie”).
I think Marie should cover her breasts in this worship setting, and reveal them in contexts in which fellow worshipers understand what she's doing. If she wants to change the culture, she should do so strategically. Showing breasts in this setting would be like civil disobedience, which would come toward the end of a longer culture-change strategy. If she feels so strongly about bras being repressive, then she may have to limit some of her movement through our culture. (I, for example, feel strongly about not having my clothing or head covering or hair regulated by men in churches. This limits my ability to worship in certain churches.) She has defined ‘sexual body part’ in a way that is understood only by a small American subculture of Christians, and she should restrain her freedom for the sake of proper worship in this conference context.
Hugo writes a lot about male responsibility in a sexualized culture. Let’s try a different question, and keep it to the church context for now. KP says, “Just b/c women are inherently more beautiful than men doesn't mean it should be all our burden to figure out how to dress at church.”
Should women hide their beauty in any way because men may be “distracted” or aroused by seeing them? Does this apply only to breasts, or also to bellies, butts, legs, arms, hair, and/or face? (interesting sideline: can I display my body if I know no one finds its shape attractive?) Is women’s beauty a form of power which they are responsible to use wisely?
And secondly, by what processes should we negotiate this issue? Is it a leadership issue, a community issue, an individual issue, or something else?
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oh snap. some bullet points from me:
1. almost a year ago, someone said, in reference to me leading prayer, "how am i supposed to concentrate with an attractive girl up there?" i don't say this to blow my own horn, but to confess that that was the first time i began to feel GUILTY AWARENESS of what i wore in front of church. i didn't like to have to 'worry' about that, so i don't anymore.
2. however, i do have an orange skirt that has rested in my closet after someone made a sideways comment about it being too short for church. Guilt, and respect for the speaker, leaves it there.
3. colleen and i read a bunch of different versions of the bible this morning in reference to the whole 'do not cause a brother to stumble' stuff. Some versions led use to interpret that stumbling is to blame on he/she who stumbles, not on the person who 'caused' the stumbling. (ie, the interpreter of the skirt is at fault, not the wearer of the skirt.) If that is true, then does it matter how one holds oneself?
4. lastly, where is the fine line between being True to One's God-Made Self and looking out for our brothers and sisters in Christ? i don't know. -
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By , at 11:44 AM
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Kira here.... I agree with much of what has been said in regards to this issue. I think Jenell hits it right on to bring up the issue of power. Because of how we view the body and sexuality in our society, sexuality does indeed become a power play, especially for women. A woman knows that if she walks through a mall with most of her breasts hanging out of her clothing, she immediately has the power over almost every man who looks her way. I think it's more a woman being weak to consciously play on the sexual response of men to her breasts. Sexuality can be power, and both men and women are responsible to use it wisely.
It is a cultural issue, and mostly one of respecting one another. Should men be responsible to de-sexualize breasts? I don't think so. Should women have to wear high collars and ankle-lengths in order to not tempt men? I think not. In the example of Marie, to me she seems clearly in the wrong because she's abusing her role as a leader in a spiritual setting to try and force people top accept the liberation of her boobs. To leave the organization in an outrage clearly shows that her focus was more on her breasts than Christ.
And yes, I think the whole thing applies to other body parts in addition to breasts, because some men find the baring of a woman's tummy just as sexual as her cleavage. We have the responsibility to respect one another, knowing full well the typical responses of the opposite sex to displays of sexuality. OK, enough from me...By , at 11:45 AM
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By , at 11:47 AM
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Jenell, I've responded at length in my blog. I suspect you and I will disagree a bit, but I am so grateful you presented us with this fscinating topic to play with.
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I wonder if somewhere in Africa, women are accused of stumbling the men for blatantly wearing a larger than average lip disk. (The nerve!)
I have spent much of my 20+ years as a christian on the receiving end of various opinions on what I should do with my own breasts. (God given, for the record.) I've been leered at by men and boys, given the stink eye from smaller breasted women, told that it was my responsibility to make sure I they didn't cause a brother to stumble, etc. Sometimes they are not an issue at all (hooray!). The fact is, they're here, they're C's, get used to it.
On my second trip to Guatemala, I was at breakfast and dropped something down the front of my shirt (occupational hazard). In retrieving said item, I made a comment in which I referred to them as "the girls". Later, I was told by another woman on the trip that my comment was "totally inappropriate" and made her uncomfortable. The funny part of the story is that there was a Guatemalan woman on this person's house building site who CONSTANTLY breast-fed her child. She rarely put her boob back in her shirt when it wasn't in use. No comment of inappropriateness was ever made about her.
This made me wonder if "working breasts" get more slack than "ornamental" breasts. At Solomon's Porch, it is common to see a woman breast-feeding her child. But God forbid a woman wear a tank top when it's 95 degrees outside.
In some way I sympathize with Marie. (Although I wear a bra all the time) I consider my dress normal by todays standards, and have decided to wear what I want because someone, somewhere will have an issue with The Girls. What are you going to do?
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I hate to be the party-pooper, but has Marie thought of how her breasts made the other women feel? Women get insecure around other "more attractive" women. It isn't that I don't understand that burden of male weakness is primarily for men to deal with, but how can one maintain community with other females if they are intimidated or insecure in response to her behavior. And for what? why can't she wear a cardigan? Why must an entire congregation deal with her breasts? It seems laden with power-struggle and though I consider myself a feminist, I can't yet see how what she has done has served anybody or any cause.
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OK, I deleted Kira's redundant posts - that's what the removals are.
I appreciate both KP and Colleen, and have heard this expressed by numerous women at church. Why is it that the body is acknowledged and honored more at a bar than in a church? And what is a woman to do with her beautiful breasts? The last anonymous comment makes me sad - that women need to restrain their beauty not only for men's sake, but to reduce other women's jealousy. Ugh.
I like Colleen's Guatmala example. There's no pastor or theology dictating what we wear at our church. We do speak into each other's lives, however, because we know and love each other. Someone spoke their mind to Colleen (though i don't know what kind of tone or attitude she had), and Colleen considered the comment and thought it through. Even if Colleen continues to wear 'normally' revealing clothes, and referring to her breasts as 'the girls', maybe the other person can at least feel listened to and respected as part of Colleen's spiritual communtiy - not perfect conformity as a group, but real community with diverse views and actions. -
Shelley here...Let me begin by sayiny that I tend to be pretty modest. I like Jenell's last response. I think we need to take into consideration our community. There are a number of men in our's that are sex addicts.No, it is not my responsibility to control their addiction. I believe though, that I have a responsibilty to consider them, and their situation, as much as my own desires. I give a lot of weight to the idea of "intension" and use it as a reference when contemplating people/situations in my life. "What was Marie's intention?" This helps me form my opinions and decide whether or not it is my place to share that opinion. I like that we have a culture of freedom at church and that includes ourpersonal and diverse choices of clothing. I am also hopful that we are a people who strive to have honest intentions and that these play out in all aspects of our lives together.
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I love the fact that community shines through your conversations - the wrestling of issues all in the hopes of strengthening the faith of one another. I live in KC and attend church at Jacob's Well which is very comparable to Solomon's from what I hear.
It's interesting to hear the different view points from everyone, especially depending on which gender they come from. Thank God that we are made so different in our thinking, as men and women I mean.
I do believe that we must do our best to control our own impulses and compulsions. But I also believe that we should work hard to help other people. We keep talk about making people stumble...but what about those already stumbling. By that I mean if an alcoholic came to Jacob's Well I'm not going to lead him around carrying a flask of whiskey in my hand - that's just not helping him, especially if he is desperately trying to improve. Yes as men we need to control ourselves but some problems are beyond that. That applies to our condition as humans. The issues is sin and our relationship to Christ. We need to strive to help each other keep that community, and we sacrifice our own freedoms for others. Now did your worship leader perhaps make a mistake and make someone stumble? or hurt someone that's already stumbling? perhaps, and we all make mistakes...the important thing is we are now learning and having conversations - and will we change? hopefully.
I guess I will always feel it's our responsibility to look out for the younger and weaker...and just because you're younger doesn't mean your weaker, and vice versa. I don't believe God leads people through their compulsions - that looks too demonic. I guess I feel we need to think about our actions and how they are leading others in their actions. With this issue...women's bodies are obviously a temptation for men - God made it that way so a man's wife is ultimately attractive and desirable to him, which she in turn desires to feel from him as well. But they shouldn't use that power to gain power over others. That's leading them through compulsions, desires, and basically sin. And then as women you need to ask yourself - are they following me for my soul or my breasts? hopefully you wouldn't desire to have power because of fat cells in your chest. Men do the same things through other facets. We need to be responsible for leading people through actions that god uses, not satan. There are so many good issues here - and I do believe God loves the fact that we engage in figuring out the truth. I have a sincere feeling that if Christ was in this situation he would have something very profound to say - probably completely about something else that's going on...because we are so typically focused on the wrong thing. And I sometimes also feel that the underlying question with these kind of issues is: do I care more about my brother and sister or my own freedom - or am I more interested in my own agenda (changing culture maybe) or christ's...I think with these kinds of delicate issues...we should have an idea what God is wanting and not only what we want. -
Paris (believe that's your name)
This is kind of a tangent from the subject but I have slightly considered moving to MN next year to teach elementary school. I want to go somewhere with a good church community and I have heard lots of good things about Solomon's porch. Are there any good community areas in the St. Paul Minneap. area that you would recommend? Either suburbs, communities, parts of town etc? -
i'll weigh in.
i think that the branch of the family tree with roots in evangelicalism and fundamentalism(a word i hear no one will claim in minnesota despite matching up perfectly, but that's another post) has as part of its history a tradition of heavily burdening women with bearing responsibility for various aspects of male sexuality. women have (and continue) to receive encouragement to "not cause men to stumble" while men are rarely (if ever) as adamantly encouraged to deal with their sometimes all pervasive objectification of women. the church as we so often know it still holds women responsible for the sexual urges of men; the idea that a woman holds power over a man who could easily overpower her if he chose simply because she had cleavage still gets airtime. and a few warnings attached. to the woman. we are also taught that male sexuality is so powerful that once activated is beyond control--another nice idea that firmly posits any change in behavior or accomodation straight in the woman's camp. i agree it's not nice to rub boobies in sex addicts faces (so to speak), but the issue primarily lies for the sex addict. it would be better to keep the pressure there than to suggest to young women that men are powerless in their company. (and if they are, church really isn't a safe place for anybody) it would also help if we were equally reflective with men about how their objectification of women creates an environment where learning how to be on guard and tenative is required. if that got even half the discussion time as women's clothing has received, we'd all be in better shape.
i think it's a mistake to suppose that the freedom to sport renegade sexuality (a phenomenon that's a more realistic option where people haven't been discussing the evils of premarital sex) is exactly the same as the occasional display of flesh at church. we're playing under very old rules. maybe if some of our worship styles weren't so orgasmic to start (jesus is my boyfriend/lover/all i want is more of you! more, jesus, more!), marie's titties wouldn't be quite as serious a problem.
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For me sexual imorality, was instilled in me, when taught I evolved from animals. This being the only good thing that came from my destroyed faith, (so I thought at the time)http://www.answersingenesis.org/docs2005/0225von_Zieten.asp
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Thanks, Jenell. I think I'll have to share some thoughts on this on my blog, what an interesting topic.
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I am a Gnostic Christian, which 96% of the early Christian church was up until the Council Of Nicea in 325 AD, and from what little of the written historical record survives, nudity and even more at times was reasonably common the Early Christian Church up until the CON.
That said, everything is about context and perception, and I agree with you, J, that modest dress by either gender is a cultural requirement in this society in order to establish and maintain credibility to lead worship services of any faith.
Not meaning to be flippant, but outside of a nudist colony or swingers' club, appropriate non-nipple or more showing dress should be mandated both by common sense and the respective congregation.By H. Kent Craig, at 3:06 AM
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OH MY WORD.
Can someone please talk about the role of self-control--a God-given fruit! When some man--or even woman--says they can't concentrate because the OTHER person is so attractive, then I think that SOME person should pracice self-control. Why blame other people? It's something God expects us to use--it's a fruit of the spirit! Given to us in abundance and its our responsibility to culitvate it. People need to take responsibility for themselves before they expect the world to change for them.By Solomon's Girl, at 1:32 PM
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OH MY WORD.
Can someone please talk about the role of self-control--a God-given fruit! When some man--or even woman--says they can't concentrate because the OTHER person is so attractive, then I think that SOME person should pracice self-control. Why blame other people? It's something God expects us to use--it's a fruit of the spirit! Given to us in abundance and its our responsibility to culitvate it. People need to take responsibility for themselves before they expect the world to change for them.By Solomon's Girl, at 1:32 PM
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OH MY WORD.
Can someone please talk about the role of self-control--a God-given fruit! When some man--or even woman--says they can't concentrate because the OTHER person is so attractive, then I think that SOME person should pracice self-control. Why blame other people? It's something God expects us to use--it's a fruit of the spirit! Given to us in abundance and its our responsibility to culitvate it. People need to take responsibility for themselves before they expect the world to change for them.By Solomon's Girl, at 1:32 PM
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OH MY WORD.
Can someone please talk about the role of self-control--a God-given fruit! When some man--or even woman--says they can't concentrate because the OTHER person is so attractive, then I think that SOME person should pracice self-control. Why blame other people? It's something God expects us to use--it's a fruit of the spirit! Given to us in abundance and its our responsibility to culitvate it. People need to take responsibility for themselves before they expect the world to change for them.By Solomon's Girl, at 1:32 PM
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OH MY WORD.
Can someone please talk about the role of self-control--a God-given fruit! When some man--or even woman--says they can't concentrate because the OTHER person is so attractive, then I think that SOME person should pracice self-control. Why blame other people? It's something God expects us to use--it's a fruit of the spirit! Given to us in abundance and its our responsibility to culitvate it. People need to take responsibility for themselves before they expect the world to change for them.By Solomon's Girl, at 1:33 PM
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"I, for example, feel strongly about not having my clothing or head covering or hair regulated by men in churches."
It's not supposed to be the men who regulate the women. It's supposed to be the women, taught by the older Christian women, who regulate the women.
The church is an autocracy, the autocrat being Jesus Christ. Elders and deacons are supposed to only be administrators and servants of the church, carrying out the commands of Christ in daily affairs.
Something is wrong when elders are constrained to speak to women personally in correction. Either the older women are not carrying out their responsibility to teach and guide the younger women or the younger women (it's usually a young woman who is the object of concern, but sometimes an older one is) are being unruly.
A woman is supposed to be in submission to her own husband, not as a groveling slavey but as an aide (fit help = help meet in the KJV) or assisting partner to him. If she is not married she should be in submission to her own father (or male head of household if her father is not present). Only indirectly, as are all members of the congregation, is she to be in obedience to the leadership of the church, who are charged with the cure of souls.
Does the Bible say a (Christian) woman is to cover her head when she prays or "prophesies" in the (meeting of the) church? What is "prophesying?" "Pro + phecy" is "speaking for" or "on behalf of" another. Thus the Christian woman is to be "veiled" when she is "praying" or "prophesying" IN THE CHURCH (sorry, no underline or italic available). Today "prophesying" is "speaking on behalf of [God, or Jesus]." Such as reading the Bible.
In the early church women were commonly readers. The entire meeting was conducted as if in prayer, with due solemnity.
Christian women, then, are free to go unveiled outside the church (meeting), though they are also free to wear one at all times.By , at 10:38 PM
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Thursday, February 24, 2005
KP raised, and then dropped, a great discussion of propriety and clothing at church. At the risk of offending all my friends, I'll pick it up.
I come from a harshly judging background with respect to clothing. We dressed to display our parents' wealth, and to be beautiful. Our parents taught us to judge girls for wearing pants to church (never wore shorts), boys for wearing hats or tennis shoes, sloppiness, casualness, and for owning something like brand new Guess jeans from Dayton's that couldn't even have been on sale yet. Inappropriate casualness offends a formal and awesome God, and shopping full-price is ostentatious, also a sin. Sexiness or tightness of clothes were never an issue because we were all totally sexually repressed. (I wish some of this judgmental energy had been directed at our pedophile pastor, where it could have actually done some good).
I now believe that understandings of dress are entirely cultural - that is, created and shared among groups of people. So, for the Venezuelan Yanamamo, you're "dressed" if you have a cotton thread tied around your waist, and are otherwise unclothed. Unclothed women are modest if their legs are more-or-less together - can't sit cross-legged in mixed company. They expect anthropologists to follow the customs of the anthropologist's home culture. If an anthropologist tries to wear a string, the people laugh and laugh.
I'll write a bit more about my perspective tomorrow, but I want to see what you think of this case study. This really happened, in an organization I'm part of, at an event I didn't attend. Names have been changed.
Fifty people have come together for worship, from around the country, from different Christian traditions, though the organization is presumably evangelical. Marie leads worship. She is a Liberated West Coast Feminist Environmental Democratic Hemp-Wearing Christian. She is in front of the group, arms raised, eyes closed, praising Jesus. She wears a light white t-shirt with no bra. Her bobbling breasts and nipples were reportedly more interesting than Jesus. Debby took her aside and said that she needed to wear a bra with this group, especially when leading worship. Marie said, "I'm liberated, and Jesus loves me the way I am. I love my body, and I won't allow you to bind my breasts!" She left the event, and reportedly the organization, furious.
What do you think? Was Marie's dress inappropriate? Was Debby's confrontation inappropriate? Should the people have been able to worship even in the bold presence of Marie's boobs?
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Boobs throw me way off. Can't focus. Cover the boobs for Jesus. But really, there is a reason for the saying, when in Rome do as the Romans do. To bring offense to everyone of that culture is to lose the ability to communicate with them. Not a good thing if communication is one of the only ways we can attempt to foster a relationship between two different cultural parties.
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LOL! Ah, Jimmy--I love his honesty. (What IS the big deal? I will never understand). Anyway, I think it goes to both--Marie should be willing to listen to the group while the group should be open to looking at their standards and evaluating them. Or maybe just turn the thermostat down and she'd have to put on a sweater.
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Well, I do have an opinion. I think that the boobs should stay. I know the 'when in Rome' argument, but the truth is, sometimes the Romans are wrong...and when they are, they're wrong no matter what country we're in.
BUT, I see the other side of the argument too. If the boobs are okay, then where's the line. How's about topless? Totally naked-coed worship? Frankly, having practiced nudism before, I have no theological problem as such, with this.
I think maybe, Jenell, adhering to the cultural standards from which you find your identity may be the best. Accepting differences in those standards NEEDS to be a part of a truly 'multicultural' church (even if that multicultural refers to groups of poeple not seperated by geographical distance.)
Thus, the beautifully boobed woman was behaving appropriately according to the cultural tradition in which she found her identity. To me, and this is just opinion, to conceal the boobs isn't just a bad idea, it's sinful. -
Hats are an interesting issue- I love my hat and only take it off in church because I know someone will be offended. I doubt they know why they're offended. The tradition of a man removing his hat carries as much weight to me as that of a woman having her head covered. But it's easier to take the hat off for a bit than to rationally discuss fine theological details...
Other than that, I do wish women were more aware of the effect their clothing can have on men. Yes, I know that I am responsible for my own eyes and thoughts. But it would be nice if a church gathering were generally 'safe' rather than a place of temptation. -
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Personally, I think to go without a bra (in white, no less!) in front of people is stupid and somewhat disrespectful. but then again, where's the line?
Ben (commenter before me) offered a peak into the can of worms I think this discussion really is: the "scariness" of women as sexual beings in church. (Can the 2 be separated? No! Just b/c women are inherently more beautiful than men doesn't mean it should be all our burden to figure out how to dress at church. Should j. bormes cover his face at church? it's pretty hot. that would be ridiculous - likewise, i will wear tanktops in the summer.)
No offense, Ben - I hope none came across. I just jumped off your comment and kept going... -
If Debby told her she "needed" to wear a bra, that might have been a bit tactless. A gentler approach, pointing out that others were distracted might have been better -- and perhaps allow Marie to pick her own solution.
I don't like dress codes that are externally enforced. But I do think we can exhort folks to take responsibility for how their clothing choices affect others, particularly if we our ostentatiousness or our sexuality or our flamboyance makes others uncomfortable. But if folks choose to interpret that exhortation differently, then we just have to leave it lay where it is (as I was taught to say.) -
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I don't know any heterosexual man whose head doesn't turn when they see nipples.
They are like kryptonite to men.
A man could be having a conversation with Billy Graham, the Pope, and the Dalai Lama about celibacy and some nipples followed by a woman walk by and the man will forget all that was being discussed. No telling what the 3 other guys would do...
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I think that for Marie not to understand the culture she is a part of is just as bad as Debbie not understanding there were was a potential cultural change.
There are better ways to change a culture than showing your nipples to people you presumably have only met briefly at a conferece. -
To throw my bra in the ring :) I think wearing a bra, in this context would be a good thing. But I really think it depends on her intentions. If her intent is to reach these people at the conference, then as any good anthropologist would note, you have to meet people where they are at. Otherwise, you are going to so offend them that they will not be able to hear your words because they are looking at your nipples. However, if your intention is to do your own thang in the Lord, then praising him sans bra is the way to go for her. Notwithstanding, as Dave Chappelle has noted, sometimes "keepin' it real" can go wrong.
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I think it's arrogant of Marie to dress with seemingly little concern for the impact on other people. There is a fine line between being yourself/expressing yourself and being offensive. And yes, it might be the other person's problem if they are offended (or turned on), but part of being in relationship with others is to take their thoughts and feelings into consideration.By , at 5:08 PM
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It is not a man's job to police women's attire. (It is that of other women, I think.)
Our job is to disciple ourselves. When confronted with temptation, I don't grow spiritually if I blame my sister for flaunting her body (knowingly or not). I only grow when I accept responsibility for my eyes and my thoughts. I can notice, look for three seconds, and then if I keep on looking, that's all on "me" not on "her."
A lot of this conversation seems to revolve around a "myth of male weakness" that I find troubling. We are stronger than we realize.
I think I have something to post about at my own place sometime soon. -
On the same note I was wondering your opinion on what us men do to distract the body as well? by that I mean is there something similar, but gender opposite, that men do to affect men and women from genuine worship? it's an interesting question - I'll give kudos to your worship leader too for practicing her freedom...and it gives her and everyone chances at forgiveness and real community - I mean what kind of christians would we be if we didn't annoy each other most of, if not all, the time?
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1) Breasts in church. Well, I'm both male and weak, and if I get distracted by them, I get distracted by them, but that would be something I would want to clearly mark under the category of "my own damn problem." Men need to have the kindness to assume that women who dress in seemingly "provocative" ways are not doing so to provoke and are not inviting stares, objectification or admonishment.
Presumably women have a matching responsibility, which probably involves thinking about the likely effect of what they're wearing on us neanderthals (as well as on other women for that matter)--but, unlike Tertullian, I think that's a task best left to well-intentioned and discerning women. -
And absolutely no offense taken kp (KP? kP?)- I come from a background of sexual addiction and I know my hang-ups are not universal. I think there are actually a few men out there that are not so sexually oriented that they can relate to any given woman as a person, without any sexual undertone. But if they're American and straight, I'd have my doubts.
I would not ever want to do anything that caused a woman to be uncomfortable with herself, either. I know that's a big struggle for a lot of women. If I encountered 'Marie' in her home church, I think it would be my responsibility to leave if I couldn't handle the way she was attired. But if she were, as in Jenell's example, gathering with a diverse group, my opinion is that she should give consideration to a weaker brother or sister.
And let me balance that as well- Romans 14 talks about the weak and the strong, and about not causing another to stumble. But buried in that passage is a short verse- :16, "Do not allow what you consider good to be spoken of as evil." Which to me means, if God has told you something is good, don't let anybody take it away from you. Which doesn't mean you flaunt it in their face, quite the opposite if it will cause them to stumble, but for you, it is a good, God-given thing. -
Here is the transcript from a recent church staff meeting....
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Me: "Oh yeah she's fine. We were at the plastic surgeon's office. She had a boob job. She's recovering nicely."
Staff: Awkward silence.
Me: "You should see 'em, they're awesome. She's like a "D" now. They're perfect."
Staff: More silence. Even more awkward.
Me: Slow on the uptake, just starting to notice the wierdness, getting nervous, should probably shut up. "Like I said, you should see 'em. She'll show you if you want."
Staff: Stunned silence, mouths agape.
Here's the deal people. They're just boobs. Half the population has them, deal with it. Boobs have the sexual power that you give them. Men, control your mind. Take responsibility for your own actions. Stop shifting liability. Don't blame one of God's most beautiful creations for your thought life. Get it under control. -
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Wednesday, February 23, 2005
Are you going to the Nashville Emergent Convention? Jay Voorhees is organizing a spiritual retreat there that sounds great. Info at www.embracingchurch.com.
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The new Anne Lamott book is out. I spend money on new, hardcover books about once a year, and I bought two of these. I'm eager to read it. I'm worried, however, that she's going to add in political/social/anti-Bush rants, and I don't think that's really her creative zone. The book should be mostly about faith, though, and I expect to love it.
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Hey Jenell,
I just got my plane ticket the other day for Nashville. They are dirt cheap right now, only $188. I am really excited go this year. Are you planning on going? -
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I can't go to the Nashville deal. I'll look forward to hearing about it, tho.
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Tuesday, February 22, 2005
Facts
1. I threw up in my hands this morning, and then ate a Ho Ho to feel better. It worked.
2. The cats are using too much litter.
3. I need to buy some toilet paper and eyeglass cleaner.
4. A publisher sent me an Intro to Anthropology text for consideration, and I think it might be over my head.
5. My dh (dear husband) came home last night from Seattle. I didn't tell any of you cyberfreaks that he was out of town, because I was afraid you'd come over here, physically overpower me, and steal my pets.
Book Review: The Seeker's Way: Cultivating the Longing of a Spiritual Life by Dave Fleming
I had Leadership Wisdom in Unlikely Places, Dave's last book, and didn't review it because I just really didn't like it. I'm much more ambivalent about The Seeker's Way. It explores the nature of spiritual searching, and has some fabulous soundbites that I've mused about. The spiritual search moves us from answers to experience, from activity to meaing, from performance to expression, from segregation to community. Those are helpful ways of describing what the deeper spiritual life is like.
Fleming is a Christian - I think he used to be a pastor - but the book is written to appeal to anyone who is searching spiritually. In each chapter he interviews someone about their search - one guy is Christian and Buddhist, but most of them are straightforward Christians (Joan Chittister, Lauren Winner, and others). The book also seems to praise the search itself more than the God who may be found in the search. Fleming is resisting the idea that we seek God, then find God, and then we're done. He goes so far in the other direction, however, that the spiritual life seems like one long search, and the search is the prize. And, being pregnant at the moment, I see clearly that sometimes the journey is not the point - the journey should end, and the destination should be reached.
I think I'm just not Fleming's market. I looked at his website, and it looks to me like he was a pastor, and now he does broad speaking and leadership training beyond the church, but with a spiritual sensibility. I hope this, and the book, finds fertile ground for the Gospel at appropriate times (or maybe that's not what he's doing - I don't know him at all).
One of my favorite things about postmodernism, at least in academics, is the destruction of objectivity. One of my gay non-Christian profs said, "I'm gay, and the rest of you have to come out, too. And if, God forbid, you're a fundamentalist or a Baptist, you can come out, too!" So we all had 'coming out' announcements, and from there on out, we spoke and interpreted the world from our own positionalities. No one but the other 3 Christians ever resonated with my explicitly Christian ideas (and most of the time, I could communicate without making it explicit and exclusionary), but I felt respected and free to be myself. So, I would rather read a spiritual seeking book by a committed Buddhist or a committed Jew, and could learn from that as a Christian, than to read a Christian hedging his own positionality and claiming to speak with neutrality about spirituality in general.
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Well,if that last paragraph doesn't deserve a hearty "Amen, sister Jenell, do have another Ho-Ho", I don't know what does.
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Why are the cats using too much litter, and how did you come to this conclusion?
Kira CampbellBy , at 11:19 AM
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Kira,
Their water is next to my desk, and I think they drink more when I'm in here. They also drink more in the winter b/c the air is dry. And, when it's nice out, Ruby goes outside and doesn't use the litter box at all. And then I wonder whether one of them has diabetes or a UTI or something horrible, but I don't think I really need to explore that venue.
I also switched to Tidy Cats instead of Fresh Step, and I think the granules are smaller, and soak in more and get used up faster.
If anyone but Kira reads this comment, I'd have to wonder whether or not you have anything else to do today! -
But what does Dave Fleming think about the cats using too much litter?
I met Dave in San Diego (well, I actually got to know his buddies from Area 215 better) and he's an interesting guy. I have the new book but haven't read it. One criticism I have of Leadership from Unlikely Voices is that the voices weren't all that unlikely for anyone who knew the church has been around longer than Pat Robertson.
Still, I'm more in tune with the endless journey motif than you are. Than again, I'm a Myers-Briggs P and not a pregnant female ;)By dave paisley, at 1:20 AM
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Jenell and all,
We only have a dog at my house. Cats scare me. I always get the feeling they know something I don't (about me, that is). I'm not sure where this fear originates. Perhpas its simply a fear based on a lack of understanding. I've never really taken the time discover the primal nature of cats. And, I probably won't get the chance. We have asthma in our house.
First, thanks for reading the book. I'm honored you'd open it.
It's always interesting to listen to others critique my work; to see how my thoughts--specifically in my books--come accross to others. The interesting piece in your review was the "hedging" comment. I'm genuinely curious where you felt me hedge because I tried so hard to do the very opposite--to simply write out of my experience without pretense.
And to Paisley's comment about unlikely voices: yes, that is the tragedy of it all. Too many leaders today would make no connection whatsoever between leadership and the people I explore in the book.
thanks again,
live the mystery
Dave FlemingBy kairosguy (dave), at 8:13 AM
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Friday, February 18, 2005
I have seen the drama played out between suburban moms numerous times. You're three months pregnant, and your friend is five. You say, "I'm thinking about 'Hunter' if it's a boy and 'Micaela' if it's a girl." She gives birth eight weeks before you and names her kid Hunter! Now you can't use it, because the name is already used, and she's a rotten name-stealer.
It turns out that Javier is a name-stealer! He and Sarah have a bunny, and they named it Ruby! Sarah, fortunately, had the decency to mention it to me while Ruby (my Ruby, the real one) was out of the room, so her feelings won't be hurt.
I just didn't know Javier was that kind of a person. I was thinking about telling people at church the names of our twins before they were born, but now I think I can't. He'll probably make Sarah have another baby super-fast, before mine, and name them whatever I was thinking of. Or he'll buy a ferret or a pot-belly pig and use my names, so I can't. I'll probably wind up using unusual names like Hazel and Phinneaus, Mary-Kate and Ashley, or Rod and Todd, just to allow my kids some individuality.
The consolation is that my Ruby doesn't have any friends and doesn't like any other animals, so the chance of her running into Ruby the rabbit at a play-group or Camp Snoopy is pretty slim.
Have any of your so-called friends stolen anything from you?
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Oh how I love you!
We decided to forgo the whole thing by giving our daughter the most popular name in the country and giving our son a Christian standard. No one can steal them (or claim they are stolen) because they are clearly in the public domain.
Baby Sally remains nameless ex utero, mainly because all the names we like are already in use by people we like--Lydia, Olivia, Grace, etc. We think we have a boy name that isn't Duncan, but I'm not telling you--or Javier--what it is. carlaBy , at 11:42 AM
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Oddly enough, one of my wife's former hallmates from her freshman year at Bethel and her husband, one of my former classmates at seminary, chose the name Eliot (spelled the same way as our son) for their son. In a fluke of medical wonder, though, we were forced to have our son six weeks early, and therefore took back the rights to the name that was rightfully ours from the beginning. Huzzah!
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Sure we'll share some names. Abdullah Rackma. Judas Merle, Ludlow Cladstrup, Crispy Denz. . . But hey, don't go stealin' them and for sure, don't go tellin' Javier our line of thinkin.'
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Jimmy stole "Crapinator" from me. Which I originally called Mr. Fuzzy Balls in my Jan 24th blog, after he crapped on my bed. But I think all know, Al is the real Crapinator, so he is welcome to that prestigious title. "All Hail King Al Crapinator!" Mr Fuzzy Balls can be on his royal court.
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Oh, but I like "stealing" names. Matilde would like everyone to feel free, indeed encouraged, to name their small ones after her.
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These are difficult days for old classic names. And those who have them. -
you gotta really come out of left field and, like the English Puritans of the 15th Century, name your children after Christian virtues: Charity, Faith, Joy, Constancy, Forgiveness, Good Manners, Temperance, Poverty. That should be a pretty good list of names that I doubt ANYONE would steal from you.
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Tuesday, February 15, 2005
Valentine's day? We went to the zoo, and then watched the Kinsey documentary. We're all just animals, according to him, though the animals seemed to show no particular interest in sex just b/c it was Valentine's Day. My favorite? The puma sleeping on a rock, laying on her back with paws drawn up like a kitten. Weirdest? Those weird little monkeys with long white moustaches. I thought, "We can ask God, 'why do people suffer?' 'why is there evil?" But we could also ask, 'Why did you make animals like that?'" The answer is equally inscrutible.
I don't know whether it's a sin or not, but I feel bad about this. I was holding a scissors, and Opal was sitting on my lap, and remember, I'm at home alone alot. Some of her fur is white, and some of it is tabby-colored on the tips and orange underneath. I cut some of the tips off so I could see what she'd look like orange and white. Now she looks a bit shorn on her back, and it makes me feel like I bullied and abused her. (She didn't notice I was cutting it, and hasn't shown signs of realizing it even yet). I feel bad about myself when I look at her. It might feel good to take advantage of a weaker being in the moment, but then you feel bad later.
Any confessions from you today?
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True confession, Jenell:
Thanks to a roast beef sub from Quiznos on Sunday (at confirmation class) I fell off the vegetarian/vegan bandwagon this past weekend. With panache. I'm back on, but humbled by my weakness! -
I slept in for two hours. It felt pretty good.
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I just up and left work for an extended period of time and went home and ate leftovers from the fridge and sat on my couch and tried on a new dress.
But I came back. So I think that says something. Though now I'm reading your blog on the clock, so I guess it doesn't say much. -
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Monday, February 14, 2005
Doug has been feeding me Zondervan books to review, which is delightful. I'm eager to get on to the next two. Today's is The Sacred Way. It's a pretty hard book to criticize, because Tony says that his children's education depends upon sales of this book, and because he quotes Kathleen Norris frequently. Either he or someone else went to the effort of balancing gender in back cover blurbs, and Tony obviously reads voraciously, men and women, present and past, and this was wonderful.
He wrote the book while on sabbatical and traveling around Europe. He writes vignettes from his travels at the beginning of each chapter. Each chapter covers a different spiritual practice - labyrinth, daily office, centering prayer, service, sabbath, etc. For each one, he discusses theology, history, and practice. I mostly skipped theology and history, and read about practice.
Tony goes to my church, but I don't know him very well yet. When I get a chance to talk with him, these are some of the questions I'll ask:
1. You have a comfortable, non-judgmental, intelligent pastoral voice in your writing. How will exposure to graduate school affect your voice? When Tony gets going on his blog about grad school stuff, it's a fearsome read. How will the "my words are bigger than your words" genre affect what seems to be his more natural tone? Will he become 'bilingual,' speaking different ways in different audiences, or insist on speaking plainly in academe, or academize his popular voice? I wonder.
2. Do you have as many complicated problems with Christianity as everyone else in emergent? Other emergent books have stirred me up and raised disturbing questions about what I've always thought to be true. Most of the time I enjoy this, and am growing because of it, but sometimes I long for comfort. The Sacred Way reflects a deep familiarity and love of Christian tradition, moving between places and times to find ways to seek God. Tony comes across as someone who loves Jesus and pursues Him, and in this book at least, doesn't complicate the basic Christian path with postmodern questions. The book is postmodern in approach and content, but no so much in terms of philosophical questions. It made me feel safe, and I liked that.
3. Have you ever seen Protestants successfully develop a rule? Tony encourages people to develop their own "rules" of spiritual practice, and to pursue them with their communities. This part made me sad. I don't want to develop my own spiritual rule, and I'm not even sure whether it's legitimate to call it a 'rule' if it's individualized. I appreciated Tony's encouragement to reflect on and be intentional about spiritual practice, but I was sad that I'm an American Protestant, and pursue most of my spiritual practices on my own. I appreciate our corporate practices as a church, especially Lent (I'm paying attention to Lent this year and encouraging others, even though I'm not practicing), and I know friends would support me if I decided to pick up a new practice. I just can't imagine living as part of a rule-based community. I did so when I lived in an inner-city women's community house, and it was fantastic, but it was a very counter-cultural and unusual way to live and I haven't encountered it elsewhere.
4. I read all of Tony's 'journal' vignettes about his experiences in Europe, and then went back to the beginning and read the chapters on spiritual practices. I would like to read a whole book about his spiritual experiences and journey - sabbatical and daily life. He alludes to challenges managing travel, education and family, ways in which he is intentional in marriage, things that are frustrating about travel. I'd love to read about how all of this, and his grad school/philosophical quest also, and spiritual practices, fits into a whole life. Not to be nosy or anything, but I'm interested.
I have some other thoughts about the book cover, fonts, and the like, but I've written enough for today.
Update: Tony kindly answered my questions in the comments!
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JP: Thanks for the kind words and for noticing my proclivity toward female voices in spirituality. In fact, I had to force myself to get a male endorsement on the back. Quick responses:
1) I hope that I am multi-lingual: PhD seminars, blogs, youth ministry conventions, church consultations, spirituality books, and my kids' bedrooms all call for different voices (my wife, Julie, readily reminds me when I used one in an inappropriate setting). I pray that I use each with integrity.
2) I have enormous intellectual and spiritual quandaries about the Christian faith. I am sure that I will write (and I do often speak) about these problems, many of which are at the philosophical/theological level. But none of them (yet?) precludes me from practicing a life of faith that includes heartfelt prayer to a God whom I struggle to know.
3) The only Protestants I know of who practice the kind of communal rule that you and I both desire are ultimately sectarian: the Amish, the Bruderhof, and the "New Monastic Communities" that are currently being launched. I do think it would be possible, however, at a place like SP to develop a rule without sectarianism.
4) That's a good idea for the next book!
5) I look forward to your thoughts on the cover and interior design, etc. You may have heard that it is currently being reprinted to correct some of the layout and typo mistakes, plus it will be on sturdier and whiter paper.
Thanks again for the kind words!
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You wrote: "I mostly skipped theology and history, and read about practice."
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Saturday, February 12, 2005
"It was 7 minutes after midnight." (Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time)
"I wrote a lot of this book in coffee shops." (Tony Jones, The Sacred Way)
"I was 23 when I met my future husband, who was then 55." (A Time to Mourn: One Woman's Journey Through Widowhood)
"I was working in an abortion clinic when I found out I was pregnant." (Past Due: A Story of Disability, Pregnancy and Birth)
"Every one of us felt some pain as a child." (Legacy of the Heart: The Spiritual Advantages of a Painful Childhood)
What's the first line of the book you haven't yet written?
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"It has been said that I have no platform because I have nothing to say nor credentials of which to speak, yet to this I say, 'morons move over, I will no longer be silent.' "
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For the longest time she thought she understood what happened that day when the kind blue sky fell in pieces all around her.
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Jesus could noty have meant what he said.
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Thursday, February 10, 2005
Her novitiate training was pre-Vatican II, and girls were trained to be nuns in a 19th century British Victorian style. The main idea was, like the miliary, to completely debase oneself and die to oneself so that one may be entirely obedient to God (unlike the military). Karen's most difficult challenge was eating cheese. She threw up every time she ate cheese, sometimes 4-7 times a week. Over time, it seemed to lead to a nervous disorder, so she was fainting and developing anorexia-like aversions to all food. The nuns said this was her special spiritual challenge, so when cheese is served, she should eat two helpings in order to discipline the body. She did this for six years, and her body never submitted to lactose.
I reflected on my situation, and what the nuns would say to me. Really, they wouldn't say anything, because at that time and in this particular order, they didn't speak to seculars. But if they did, they would say, or bark, that I ought to never speak of my complaints, and should use them all as spiritual disciplines. My upbringing in 1970s-80s positive self-esteem secular America, of course, suggests the opposite. Express your feelings, explore them, learn from your body, etc. All that submission to authority and denigration of the body and feelings seems harsh and wrong.
I am challenged, however, to seek God in every situation. I am challenged to serve God and others in some way, regardless of my own suffering. I don't think I can put it into words, but I believe the nuns had something right - my feelings and emotions are not the measure of all things. I am not entirely free, and I may be transformed in submission to God and his church. I don't see much progress, but I would like to be content in my own existence, regardless of my usefulness. I would like to bear physical discomfort with more grace. I would like to hold my loved ones while I have them, and release them when the time comes. I am not very concerned about my cheese consumption.
Even more helpful, I found my favorite quote from Kathleen Norris the other day. I hope you like it.
Before you begin a thing, remind yourself that difficulties and delays quite impossible to foresee are ahead. If you could see them clearly, naturally you could do a great deal to get rid of them but you can't. You can only see one thing clearly, and that is your goal. Form a mental picture of that and cling to it through thick and thin.
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For a person like me who thinks he can avoid all obstacles if he plans well enough in advance, such advice is extremely helpful. I don't want to become a "non-planner" but I do want to increase my ability to not worry about those things that inevitably will come.
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My guess is that if we did see our obstacles and difficulties, there is no way in hell we would ever begin.
Please read my blog, Jenell--Buttons and I are so proud of it. We want to know what you think of it.By Solomon's Girl, at 2:50 PM
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Tell me where to go to read Button's blog - I went to latterdaysofscorpio and it's the post about federal policy...??? -
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Buttons is Katie Hutton and we wrote the federal policy piece on my blog.
What do you think?By Solomon's Girl, at 1:28 PM
Wednesday, February 09, 2005
I can’t observe Lent because I am useless. I can’t even go to the Lent service at church because I’m afraid it will make me cry too hard and get sick. My spirituality has been reduced to one prayer, “God, please don’t take my babies. Please let me have them for awhile.” That prayer is my only spiritual practice, and I can’t give it up. I can’t give up eating, because I have to eat whatever I can, whenever I can. I can’t give up shopping, because my back hurts too much to walk around a store anyway. I can’t give up anything that brings me pleasure, like petting cats or sleeping, because I need small pleasures like I need air. I can’t add any practices to my life, either, because that would just be too hard.
I’ve recently read, or am in process of reading, four books by disabled authors. One has only one leg that is useless (Andre Dubus), one is agoraphobic, suicidal, and has MS (Nancy Mairs), one is old and weak (May Sarton), and the other, Nancy Eisen, doesn’t state what her disability is. I’m not disabled in these ways, but I need to read other people voicing what it’s like to be newly, and for them, permanently, limited. I am an abusive reader, using their words to prompt the thought, “I’m glad I’m not you,” reminding myself that my journey of limitations will end in the foreseeable future.
I recite each day what I can’t do. I can’t go for a walk. I can’t work out. I can’t go to work. I can’t do very much in the evenings. I can’t keep commitments I make to friends. I can’t control my emotions. Instead, I live like an animal, reproducing for some instinctive reason I can’t even articulate. I eat when I’m hungry, and can’t wait even twenty minutes for food. I sleep all the time, and can’t stay up late even for E.R. Instead of anticipating my brain to spark a clever thought or teaching idea, I lay in silence for minutes and minutes each day, hands on belly, tactile-listening for pains or contractions or morse code messages. My spiritual and mental life is very small, and my physical life is very large.
A few months after our triplets died, James asked me, “What do you do all day?” I wasn’t working, wasn’t nursing, wasn’t doing anything. I said, “I grieve. All day, every day.” So, what do I do now? I gestate. I eat, sleep, pray, read, write, send birthday cards, pet the cats, and think of people I love. And I still grieve, too, everyday but not all day. And this will have to be enough. I am reminded of John Milton’s poem (16th century?) about his blindness, which I’ll post below.
But I can’t observe Lent, and that’s that. I really miss myself, and I hope I return.
On His Blindness
WHEN I consider how my light is spent
E're half my days, in this dark world and wide,
And that one Talent which is death to hide,
Lodg'd with me useless, though my Soul more bent
To serve therewith my Maker, and present
My true account, least he returning chide,
Doth God exact day-labour, light deny'd,
I fondly ask; But patience to prevent
That murmur, soon replies, God doth not need
Either man's work or his own gifts, who best
Bear his milde yoak, they serve him best, his State
Is Kingly. Thousands at his bidding speed
And post o're Land and Ocean without rest:
They also serve who only stand and waite.
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I am so sorry. Wow. Even though I do not know you, you are in my thoughts today (if that doesn't sound too creepy).
Have you read Lewis's "A Grief Observed?"By Ryan Lee Sharp, at 12:41 PM
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I've decided to "add" the habit of taking care of myself. Since I rarely if ever do this anyway, taking care of myself doesn't seem selfish so much as something God wants anyway. I think you are doing nothing less than taking care of yourself and your children; what could be a better lent than that?
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that was beautiful.
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Well, Jenell, sounds like you gave up being useful--which isn't a bad thing in my opinion. Giving up being a superhero Christian, who NEEDS to be doing things for God because...because why. Because he needs us to?
I think giving up being useful means just being you--and that's you gestating and preparing to be a mom. And maybe some of that is learning how to give up fear and worry and the "shoulds" of life and just be. Maybe that's right where God wants you in this Lent season.
Love you from cyberspace. Love you as an acquaintance and a regular visitor on Friday nights. Love you from afar, but love you as best I can anyway.By Solomon's Girl, at 2:49 PM
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I know of few things in the world more useful than creating little hearts, hands, and feet. You have been on my mind and heart lately so much. I wept when I saw that you left our names and birthdays on the Friday night group list. It is the smallest things lately that send me into a torrent of tears, like remembering the taste in my mouth upon eating a piece of your rhubarb pie. I know that sounds corny and maybe a bit ridiculous, but I just miss you.
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So beautiful. All of it. Thanks for being real.
KristinBy , at 2:20 AM
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Well, SOlomon's Girl said what I wanted to say, except she said it first and she said it better.
Like the first commenter, I've never met you, Jenell, but you are a joy to me in the 'sphere. Thank you.
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
I woke up this morning petting Opal, and thinking of Al. He is pictured in the sidebar here. Jimmy is threatening to hasten Al's demise if he craps outside the box 97 more times (or is it less than 97 now?). I love Al for a number of reasons. He's a boy, and I only have girl cats. He has a big head, which I like in a cat. He reminds me of Shadrach, my childhood boy cat, and he has also been a point of bonding between Emily and I.
My brainstorm this morning was that we all could tithe craps to Al. Ruby, Opal, and I are each willing to tithe one crap today to Al. We may produce more, but we discussed it, and that's really all we can spare. Ruby left one outside already, and that one can't count. Craps for Al must be in a container, any kind of your choosing.
What say you? Contribute in the comments section if you'd like, and then we'll petition Jimmy to add the tithed craps back to Al's diminishing total.
A Second Concern
Pete has started blogging again, and apparently stopped because his ideas may or may not have been important and worthy of internet publication. This matter of blogs containing important information raises some serious concerns about the worthiness of my blog. I'm pretty sure I don't care, however, because this blog is quite obviously non-required reading!
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are you kidding?!? I check your blog EVERY DAY, sometimes more than once, to see if you've posted.
If only I was taking a class from you and could thus get credit for it... -
OK, whatever, Pete. Could you please focus on saving Al's life?
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I think this is a noble cause, because in the end, I don't think I can be a terminator of the crapinator. I sincerely want to strangle the idea of Al, but not Al himself. I respectfully submit that in lieu of tithing crap to Al's total number, people tithe ideas as to how to re-teach Al that he might very well get caught up in the wheelspokes of the exercise bike by "accident" if he doesn't learn to stop crapping beside it.
ps. I admire your love of my cat. -
crap, girl; pagitt posted a pic of his dog's haircut. if that can be blogged, than we can post anything we want.
i would like to offer my craps to Al, but since i am of weak constitution, i hope you will offer my every-other-day tithe. (TMI!TMI!) -
I am with KP on this one.
-jbradleyBy , at 1:42 PM
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i don't know-- my cats poop outside the box almost every week...
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Pete, if outside the box crap doesn't bother you then perhaps you'd like to have the crapinator and his sister Tipper.
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oooh, it's tempting. but i think four cats in our little East Side house might be too many. that, and the fact that Nermal, our former street cat, would probably eat any new animals that join our household. the only reason she hasn't eaten Aurora is because Aurora is part Maine Coon and weighs about twice what Nermal does.
and finally: i want to set up my saltwater aquarium again after a 3 year hiatus, and the last thing i need is 2 more cats who will try to go fishing regularly.
but thanks! -
Hello fellow fisherman,
Did you know that 16% of the U.S. population goes fishing at least 16 days a year?
Did you also know that over 75% of the nations fishermen do not fish during "prime time"; fish feeding hours?
Those precious few moments before twilight can be absolutely magical. Even up until 11pm at night, the largest predators of any species feed ravenously.
Don't believe me? Check out Daniel Eggertsen's story, and a picture of a couple of his catches here : "Evening Secrets plus more"
I want you to do me a favor and try it out so I can see what you think of it, and if it works for you as well as it did for me.
You will be one of the first to try it out.
Gone Fishin',
NeilBy Quit Smoking, at 12:33 AM
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Auf zur Katzenzüchterliste!katzeBy , at 4:12 PM
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Nice blog. Check out my premium cat food blog.
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That was helpful. I think you might be interested in checking out 75 gallon saltwater aquarium
By , at 8:51 PM
Monday, February 07, 2005
Does anyone have a copy of The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time that I can borrow? I'm on request wait lists at three libraries.
I feel that oranges are very wonderful. Oranges are the only food that inspires me to pray while eating it. I can finally eat raw fruit again and am loving it.
I have some strong feelings about Dots. In the original box, I like the pink ones. If I were a diva, I'd have my assistant customize boxes of only pink and red dots for me. In the tropical box, I like red and blue. The orange ones taste like feet, and the yellow ones are weird.
I've been home almost all the time for seven weeks, and this is the first time I've felt a little bit bored.
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Saturday, February 05, 2005
In the present moment, I can see a cardinal out one window and squirrels out the other. The cardinal just flew away. I woke up to the sound of birds, for the first time since winter. There were two cats in my bed. My retching was brief, and now I've eaten and started reading Endgame: A Journal of the Seventy Ninth Year, by May Sarton. I can hear James breathing, still asleep.
Today is a day to practice living in the present, because it is sunny and warm, perhaps it will be close to 50 degrees again. Tomorrow it will be cold with sloppy rain, and I may be more sick. But in this moment, I have more reasons than I need to be content.
What's good about your morning?
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i woke up this morning to the sound of my little boy needing attention. after i picked him up and brought him into our bedroom, he fell asleep quickly, warm and safe.
i'm at work now, which isn't super great, but nobody else is here, so i can get a lot done. i'm listening to old big band 78's on a public radio station from Kentucky that i grew up listening to. i am nostalgic for home, but i am content knowing that the weather here was warmer yesterday than it was in atlanta. -
- Waking up to a brilliant blue sky and abundant sunshine, after endless days of grey gloomy sky and pouring rain.
- Waking up and then turning over and sleeping in for another half-hour.
- Waking up to a quiet house and making coffee for my family.
(PS: Jenell, I've been reading your blog consistently since I surfed onto it from Jen Lemen's site. Your writing is delightful.) -
I love May Sarton.
Saturday morning there was a newspaper to read, coffee to drink, a chinchilla to massage and a fiancee to snuggle with.
Thursday, February 03, 2005
The house next to ours is for sale - it's a '70s ranch style 2-level in Mounds View...that probably makes no one want it. Let me know if you're interested. There's one around the corner, too. I want some neighbors I like, because we have huge backyards that we could share.
It's been a hard week for eating, which also makes it hard to think, which leaves little blog about. I'm out of good reading, also. My book club is meeting tonight to talk about Old School by Tobias Wolff. After that, it's Christianity Today, Christian Century, and when I get really desperate, Rolling Stone. I read Rolling Stone's Grammy picks this morning, and got half way through before I realized I don't even know who the artists are.
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man...we live on the East Side of St Paul, and are perfectly content with our little neighborhood, but would love a huge backyard. i looked up (what i think is) the house next to yours online, but it is way, way, way more than we could afford. not even as a university does Bethel pay me the big bucks...my fault, i suppose, for getting into a position that requires only a high school diploma...
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That surprises me, Pete. I always thought they were underpaying the faculty so the library staff could get rich. Guess I was wrong!
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oh, i can assure you that is not the case.
according to the Chronicle of Higher Ed, a first year Instructor at Bethel's salary in 2003-2004 was $44,100. in the 2003-2004 year after taxes i MIGHT have cleared $19,000. I have a Master's degree. why am i still here?
sorry, i'm done complaining. -
Having trouble paying your bills? Getting dunning notices from creditors? Are your accounts being turned over to debt collectors? Are you worried about losing your home or your car?
You’re not alone. Many people face a financial crisis some time in their lives. Whether the crisis is caused by personal or family illness, the loss of a job, or overspending, it can seem overwhelming. But often, it can be overcome. Your financial situation doesn’t have to go from bad to worse.
If you or someone you know is in financial hot water, consider these options: realistic budgeting, credit counseling from a reputable organization, debt consolidation, or bankruptcy. Debt negotiation is yet another option. How do you know which will work best for you? It depends on your level of debt, your level of discipline, and your prospects for the future.
Self-Help
Developing a Budget: The first step toward taking control of your financial situation is to do a realistic assessment of how much money you take in and how much money you spend. Start by listing your income from all sources. Then, list your “fixed” expenses — those that are the same each month — like mortgage payments or rent, car payments, and insurance premiums. Next, list the expenses that vary — like entertainment, recreation, and clothing. Writing down all your expenses, even those that seem insignificant, is a helpful way to track your spending patterns, identify necessary expenses, and prioritize the rest. The goal is to make sure you can make ends meet on the basics: housing, food, health care, insurance, and education.
Your public library and bookstores have information about budgeting and money management techniques. In addition, computer software programs can be useful tools for developing and maintaining a budget, balancing your checkbook, and creating plans to save money and pay down your debt.
Contacting Your Creditors: Contact your creditors immediately if you’re having trouble making ends meet. Tell them why it’s difficult for you, and try to work out a modified payment plan that reduces your payments to a more manageable level. Don’t wait until your accounts have been turned over to a debt collector. At that point, your creditors have given up on you.
Dealing with Debt Collectors: The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act is the federal law that dictates how and when a debt collector may contact you. A debt collector may not call you before 8 a.m., after 9 p.m., or while you’re at work if the collector knows that your employer doesn’t approve of the calls. Collectors may not harass you, lie, or use unfair practices when they try to collect a debt. And they must honor a written request from you to stop further contact.
Managing Your Auto and Home Loans: Your debts can be unsecured or secured. Secured debts usually are tied to an asset, like your car for a car loan, or your house for a mortgage. If you stop making payments, lenders can repossess your car or foreclose on your house. Unsecured debts are not tied to any asset, and include most credit card debt, bills for medical care, signature loans, and debts for other types of services.
Most automobile financing agreements allow a creditor to repossess your car any time you’re in default. No notice is required. If your car is repossessed, you may have to pay the balance due on the loan, as well as towing and storage costs, to get it back. If you can’t do this, the creditor may sell the car. If you see default approaching, you may be better off selling the car yourself and paying off the debt: You’ll avoid the added costs of repossession and a negative entry on your credit report.
If you fall behind on your mortgage, contact your lender immediately to avoid foreclosure. Most lenders are willing to work with you if they believe you’re acting in good faith and the situation is temporary. Some lenders may reduce or suspend your payments for a short time. When you resume regular payments, though, you may have to pay an additional amount toward the past due total. Other lenders may agree to change the terms of the mortgage by extending the repayment period to reduce the monthly debt. Ask whether additional fees would be assessed for these changes, and calculate how much they total in the long term.
If you and your lender cannot work out a plan, contact a housing counseling agency. Some agencies limit their counseling services to homeowners with FHA mortgages, but many offer free help to any homeowner who’s having trouble making mortgage payments. Call the local office of the Department of Housing and Urban Development or the housing authority in your state, city, or county for help in finding a legitimate housing counseling agency near you
Credit Counseling and Debt Management Plans
Credit Counseling: If you’re not disciplined enough to create a workable budget and stick to it, can’t work out a repayment plan with your creditors, or can’t keep track of mounting bills, consider contacting a credit counseling organization. Many credit counseling organizations are nonprofit and work with you to solve your financial problems. But be aware that, just because an organization says it’s “nonprofit,” there’s no guarantee that its services are free, affordable, or even legitimate. In fact, some credit counseling organizations charge high fees, which may be hidden, or urge consumers to make “voluntary” contributions that can cause more debt.
Most credit counselors offer services through local offices, the Internet, or on the telephone. If possible, find an organization that offers in-person counseling. Many universities, military bases, credit unions, housing authorities, and branches of the U.S. Cooperative Extension Service operate nonprofit credit counseling programs. Your financial institution, local consumer protection agency, and friends and family also may be good sources of information and referrals.
Reputable credit counseling organizations can advise you on managing your money and debts, help you develop a budget, and offer free educational materials and workshops. Their counselors are certified and trained in the areas of consumer credit, money and debt management, and budgeting. Counselors discuss your entire financial situation with you, and help you develop a personalized plan to solve your money problems. An initial counseling session typically lasts an hour, with an offer of follow-up sessions.
Debt Management Plans: If your financial problems stem from too much debt or your inability to repay your debts, a credit counseling agency may recommend that you enroll in a debt management plan (DMP). A DMP alone is not credit counseling, and DMPs are not for everyone. You should sign up for one of these plans only after a certified credit counselor has spent time thoroughly reviewing your financial situation, and has offered you customized advice on managing your money. Even if a DMP is appropriate for you, a reputable credit counseling organization still can help you create a budget and teach you money management skills.
In a DMP, you deposit money each month with the credit counseling organization, which uses your deposits to pay your unsecured debts, like your credit card bills, student loans, and medical bills, according to a payment schedule the counselor develops with you and your creditors. Your creditors may agree to lower your interest rates or waive certain fees, but check with all your creditors to be sure they offer the concessions that a credit counseling organization describes to you. A successful DMP requires you to make regular, timely payments, and could take 48 months or more to complete. Ask the credit counselor to estimate how long it will take for you to complete the plan. You may have to agree not to apply for — or use — any additional credit while you’re participating in the plan.
Protect Yourself
Be wary of credit counseling organizations that:
charge high up-front or monthly fees for enrolling in credit counseling or a DMP.
pressure you to make “voluntary contributions,” another name for fees.
won’t send you free information about the services they provide without requiring you to provide personal financial information, such as credit card account numbers, and balances.
try to enroll you in a DMP without spending time reviewing your financial situation.
offer to enroll you in a DMP without teaching you budgeting and money management skills.
demand that you make payments into a DMP before your creditors have accepted you into the program.
Debt Consolidation
You may be able to lower your cost of credit by consolidating your debt through a second mortgage or a home equity line of credit. Remember that these loans require you to put up your home as collateral. If you can’t make the payments — or if your payments are late — you could lose your home.
What’s more, the costs of consolidation loans can add up. In addition to interest on the loans, you may have to pay “points,” with one point equal to one percent of the amount you borrow. Still, these loans may provide certain tax advantages that are not available with other kinds of credit.
Bankruptcy
Personal bankruptcy generally is considered the debt management option of last resort because the results are long-lasting and far reaching. People who follow the bankruptcy rules receive a discharge — a court order that says they don’t have to repay certain debts. However, bankruptcy information (both the date of your filing and the later date of discharge) stay on your credit report for 10 years, and can make it difficult to obtain credit, buy a home, get life insurance, or sometimes get a job. Still, bankruptcy is a legal procedure that offers a fresh start for people who have gotten into financial difficulty and can’t satisfy their debts.
There are two primary types of personal bankruptcy: Chapter 13 and Chapter 7. Each must be filed in federal bankruptcy court. As of April 2006, the filing fees run about $274 for Chapter 13 and $299 for Chapter 7. Attorney fees are additional and can vary.
Effective October 2005, Congress made sweeping changes to the bankruptcy laws. The net effect of these changes is to give consumers more incentive to seek bankruptcy relief under Chapter 13 rather than Chapter 7. Chapter 13 allows people with a steady income to keep property, like a mortgaged house or a car, that they might otherwise lose through the bankruptcy process. In Chapter 13, the court approves a repayment plan that allows you to use your future income to pay off your debts during a three-to-five-year period, rather than surrender any property. After you have made all the payments under the plan, you receive a discharge of your debts.
Chapter 7 is known as straight bankruptcy, and involves liquidation of all assets that are not exempt. Exempt property may include automobiles, work-related tools, and basic household furnishings. Some of your property may be sold by a court-appointed official — a trustee — or turned over to your creditors. The new bankruptcy laws have changed the time period during which you can receive a discharge through Chapter 7. You now must wait 8 years after receiving a discharge in Chapter 7 before you can file again under that chapter. The Chapter 13 waiting period is much shorter and can be as little as two years between filings.
Both types of bankruptcy may get rid of unsecured debts and stop foreclosures, repossessions, garnishments and utility shut-offs, and debt collection activities. Both also provide exemptions that allow people to keep certain assets, although exemption amounts vary by state. Note that personal bankruptcy usually does not erase child support, alimony, fines, taxes, and some student loan obligations. And, unless you have an acceptable plan to catch up on your debt under Chapter 13, bankruptcy usually does not allow you to keep property when your creditor has an unpaid mortgage or security lien on it.
Another major change to the bankruptcy laws involves certain hurdles that a consumer must clear before even filing for bankruptcy, no matter what the chapter. You must get credit counseling from a government-approved organization within six months before you file for any bankruptcy relief. You can find a state-by-state list of government-approved organizations at www.usdoj.gov/ust. That is the website of the U.S. Trustee Program, the organization within the U.S. Department of Justice that supervises bankruptcy cases and trustees. Also, before you file a Chapter 7 bankruptcy case, you must satisfy a “means test.” This test requires you to confirm that your income does not exceed a certain amount. The amount varies by state and is publicized by the U.S. Trustee Program at www.usdoj.gov/ust.
Debt Negotiation Programs
Debt negotiation differs greatly from credit counseling and DMPs. It can be very risky, and have a long term negative impact on your credit report and, in turn, your ability to get credit. That’s why many states have laws regulating debt negotiation companies and the services they offer. Contact your state Attorney General for more information.
The Claims
Debt negotiation firms may claim they’re nonprofit. They also may claim that they can arrange for your unsecured debt — typically credit card debt — to be paid off for anywhere from 10 to 50 percent of the balance owed. For example, if you owe $10,000 on a credit card, a debt negotiation firm may claim it can arrange for you to pay it off with a lesser amount, say $4,000.
The firms often pitch their services as an alternative to bankruptcy. They may claim that using their services will have little or no negative impact on your ability to get credit in the future, or that any negative information can be removed from your credit report when you complete their debt negotiation program. The firms usually tell you to stop making payments to your creditors, and instead, send payments to the debt negotiation company. The firm may promise to hold your funds in a special account and pay your creditors on your behalf.
The Truth
Just because a debt negotiation company describes itself as a “nonprofit” organization, there’s no guarantee that the services they offer are legitimate. There also is no guarantee that a creditor will accept partial payment of a legitimate debt. In fact, if you stop making payments on a credit card, late fees and interest usually are added to the debt each month. If you exceed your credit limit, additional fees and charges also can be added. This can cause your original debt to double or triple. What’s more, most debt negotiation companies charge consumers substantial fees for their services, including a fee to establish the account with the debt negotiator, a monthly service fee, and a final fee of a percentage of the money you’ve supposedly saved.
While creditors have no obligation to agree to negotiate the amount a consumer owes, they have a legal obligation to provide accurate information to the credit reporting agencies, including your failure to make monthly payments. That can result in a negative entry on your credit report. And in certain situations, creditors may have the right to sue you to recover the money you owe. In some instances, when creditors win a lawsuit, they have the right to garnish your wages or put a lien on your home. Finally, the Internal Revenue Service may consider any amount of forgiven debt to be taxable income.
Damage Control
Turning to a business that offers help in solving debt problems may seem like a reasonable solution when your bills become unmanageable. But before you do business with any company, check it out with your state Attorney General, local consumer protection agency, and the Better Business Bureau. They can tell you if any consumer complaints are on file about the firm you’re considering doing business with. Ask your state Attorney General if the company is required to be licensed to work in your state and, if so, whether it is.
Some businesses that offer to help you with your debt problems may charge high fees and fail to follow through on the services they sell. Others may misrepresent the terms of a debt consolidation loan, failing to explain certain costs or mention that you’re signing over your home as collateral. Businesses advertising voluntary debt reorganization plans may not explain that the plan is a bankruptcy filing, tell you everything that’s involved, or help you through what can be a long and complex process.
In addition, some companies guarantee you a loan if you pay a fee in advance. The fee may range from $100 to several hundred dollars. Resist the temptation to follow up on these advance-fee loan guarantees. They may be illegal. It is true that many legitimate creditors offer extensions of credit through telemarketing and require an application or appraisal fee in advance. But legitimate creditors never guarantee that the consumer will get the loan — or even represent that a loan is likely. Under the federal Telemarketing Sales Rule, a seller or tele-marketer who guarantees or represents a high likelihood of your getting a loan or some other extension of credit may not ask for or accept payment until you’ve received the loan.
You should be cautious of claims from so-called credit repair clinics. Many companies appeal to consumers with poor credit histories, promising to clean up credit reports for a fee. But you already have the right to have any inaccurate information in your file corrected. And a credit repair clinic cannot have accurate information removed from your credit report, despite their promises. You also should know that federal and some state laws prohibit these companies from charging you for their services until the services are fully performed. Only time and a conscientious effort to repay your debts will improve your credit report.
If you’re thinking about getting help to stabilize your financial situation, do some homework first. Find out what services a business provides and what it costs, and don’t rely on verbal promises. Get everything in writing, and read your contracts carefully.
Having trouble paying your bills? Getting dunning notices from creditors? Are your accounts being turned over to debt collectors? Are you worried about losing your home or your car?
You’re not alone. Many people face a financial crisis some time in their lives. Whether the crisis is caused by personal or family illness, the loss of a job, or overspending, it can seem overwhelming. But often, it can be overcome. Your financial situation doesn’t have to go from bad to worse.
If you or someone you know is in financial hot water, consider these options: realistic budgeting, credit counseling from a reputable organization, debt consolidation, or bankruptcy. Debt negotiation is yet another option. How do you know which will work best for you? It depends on your level of debt, your level of discipline, and your prospects for the future.
Self-Help
Developing a Budget: The first step toward taking control of your financial situation is to do a realistic assessment of how much money you take in and how much money you spend. Start by listing your income from all sources. Then, list your “fixed” expenses — those that are the same each month — like mortgage payments or rent, car payments, and insurance premiums. Next, list the expenses that vary — like entertainment, recreation, and clothing. Writing down all your expenses, even those that seem insignificant, is a helpful way to track your spending patterns, identify necessary expenses, and prioritize the rest. The goal is to make sure you can make ends meet on the basics: housing, food, health care, insurance, and education.
Your public library and bookstores have information about budgeting and money management techniques. In addition, computer software programs can be useful tools for developing and maintaining a budget, balancing your checkbook, and creating plans to save money and pay down your debt.
Contacting Your Creditors: Contact your creditors immediately if you’re having trouble making ends meet. Tell them why it’s difficult for you, and try to work out a modified payment plan that reduces your payments to a more manageable level. Don’t wait until your accounts have been turned over to a debt collector. At that point, your creditors have given up on you.
Dealing with Debt Collectors: The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act is the federal law that dictates how and when a debt collector may contact you. A debt collector may not call you before 8 a.m., after 9 p.m., or while you’re at work if the collector knows that your employer doesn’t approve of the calls. Collectors may not harass you, lie, or use unfair practices when they try to collect a debt. And they must honor a written request from you to stop further contact.
Managing Your Auto and Home Loans: Your debts can be unsecured or secured. Secured debts usually are tied to an asset, like your car for a car loan, or your house for a mortgage. If you stop making payments, lenders can repossess your car or foreclose on your house. Unsecured debts are not tied to any asset, and include most credit card debt, bills for medical care, signature loans, and debts for other types of services.
Most automobile financing agreements allow a creditor to repossess your car any time you’re in default. No notice is required. If your car is repossessed, you may have to pay the balance due on the loan, as well as towing and storage costs, to get it back. If you can’t do this, the creditor may sell the car. If you see default approaching, you may be better off selling the car yourself and paying off the debt: You’ll avoid the added costs of repossession and a negative entry on your credit report.
If you fall behind on your mortgage, contact your lender immediately to avoid foreclosure. Most lenders are willing to work with you if they believe you’re acting in good faith and the situation is temporary. Some lenders may reduce or suspend your payments for a short time. When you resume regular payments, though, you may have to pay an additional amount toward the past due total. Other lenders may agree to change the terms of the mortgage by extending the repayment period to reduce the monthly debt. Ask whether additional fees would be assessed for these changes, and calculate how much they total in the long term.
If you and your lender cannot work out a plan, contact a housing counseling agency. Some agencies limit their counseling services to homeowners with FHA mortgages, but many offer free help to any homeowner who’s having trouble making mortgage payments. Call the local office of the Department of Housing and Urban Development or the housing authority in your state, city, or county for help in finding a legitimate housing counseling agency near you
Credit Counseling and Debt Management Plans
Credit Counseling: If you’re not disciplined enough to create a workable budget and stick to it, can’t work out a repayment plan with your creditors, or can’t keep track of mounting bills, consider contacting a credit counseling organization. Many credit counseling organizations are nonprofit and work with you to solve your financial problems. But be aware that, just because an organization says it’s “nonprofit,” there’s no guarantee that its services are free, affordable, or even legitimate. In fact, some credit counseling organizations charge high fees, which may be hidden, or urge consumers to make “voluntary” contributions that can cause more debt.
Most credit counselors offer services through local offices, the Internet, or on the telephone. If possible, find an organization that offers in-person counseling. Many universities, military bases, credit unions, housing authorities, and branches of the U.S. Cooperative Extension Service operate nonprofit credit counseling programs. Your financial institution, local consumer protection agency, and friends and family also may be good sources of information and referrals.
Reputable credit counseling organizations can advise you on managing your money and debts, help you develop a budget, and offer free educational materials and workshops. Their counselors are certified and trained in the areas of consumer credit, money and debt management, and budgeting. Counselors discuss your entire financial situation with you, and help you develop a personalized plan to solve your money problems. An initial counseling session typically lasts an hour, with an offer of follow-up sessions.
Debt Management Plans: If your financial problems stem from too much debt or your inability to repay your debts, a credit counseling agency may recommend that you enroll in a debt management plan (DMP). A DMP alone is not credit counseling, and DMPs are not for everyone. You should sign up for one of these plans only after a certified credit counselor has spent time thoroughly reviewing your financial situation, and has offered you customized advice on managing your money. Even if a DMP is appropriate for you, a reputable credit counseling organization still can help you create a budget and teach you money management skills.
In a DMP, you deposit money each month with the credit counseling organization, which uses your deposits to pay your unsecured debts, like your credit card bills, student loans, and medical bills, according to a payment schedule the counselor develops with you and your creditors. Your creditors may agree to lower your interest rates or waive certain fees, but check with all your creditors to be sure they offer the concessions that a credit counseling organization describes to you. A successful DMP requires you to make regular, timely payments, and could take 48 months or more to complete. Ask the credit counselor to estimate how long it will take for you to complete the plan. You may have to agree not to apply for — or use — any additional credit while you’re participating in the plan.
Protect Yourself
Be wary of credit counseling organizations that:
charge high up-front or monthly fees for enrolling in credit counseling or a DMP.
pressure you to make “voluntary contributions,” another name for fees.
won’t send you free information about the services they provide without requiring you to provide personal financial information, such as credit card account numbers, and balances.
try to enroll you in a DMP without spending time reviewing your financial situation.
offer to enroll you in a DMP without teaching you budgeting and money management skills.
demand that you make payments into a DMP before your creditors have accepted you into the program.
Debt Consolidation
You may be able to lower your cost of credit by consolidating your debt through a second mortgage or a home equity line of credit. Remember that these loans require you to put up your home as collateral. If you can’t make the payments — or if your payments are late — you could lose your home.
What’s more, the costs of consolidation loans can add up. In addition to interest on the loans, you may have to pay “points,” with one point equal to one percent of the amount you borrow. Still, these loans may provide certain tax advantages that are not available with other kinds of credit.
Bankruptcy
Personal bankruptcy generally is considered the debt management option of last resort because the results are long-lasting and far reaching. People who follow the bankruptcy rules receive a discharge — a court order that says they don’t have to repay certain debts. However, bankruptcy information (both the date of your filing and the later date of discharge) stay on your credit report for 10 years, and can make it difficult to obtain credit, buy a home, get life insurance, or sometimes get a job. Still, bankruptcy is a legal procedure that offers a fresh start for people who have gotten into financial difficulty and can’t satisfy their debts.
There are two primary types of personal bankruptcy: Chapter 13 and Chapter 7. Each must be filed in federal bankruptcy court. As of April 2006, the filing fees run about $274 for Chapter 13 and $299 for Chapter 7. Attorney fees are additional and can vary.
Effective October 2005, Congress made sweeping changes to the bankruptcy laws. The net effect of these changes is to give consumers more incentive to seek bankruptcy relief under Chapter 13 rather than Chapter 7. Chapter 13 allows people with a steady income to keep property, like a mortgaged house or a car, that they might otherwise lose through the bankruptcy process. In Chapter 13, the court approves a repayment plan that allows you to use your future income to pay off your debts during a three-to-five-year period, rather than surrender any property. After you have made all the payments under the plan, you receive a discharge of your debts.
Chapter 7 is known as straight bankruptcy, and involves liquidation of all assets that are not exempt. Exempt property may include automobiles, work-related tools, and basic household furnishings. Some of your property may be sold by a court-appointed official — a trustee — or turned over to your creditors. The new bankruptcy laws have changed the time period during which you can receive a discharge through Chapter 7. You now must wait 8 years after receiving a discharge in Chapter 7 before you can file again under that chapter. The Chapter 13 waiting period is much shorter and can be as little as two years between filings.
Both types of bankruptcy may get rid of unsecured debts and stop foreclosures, repossessions, garnishments and utility shut-offs, and debt collection activities. Both also provide exemptions that allow people to keep certain assets, although exemption amounts vary by state. Note that personal bankruptcy usually does not erase child support, alimony, fines, taxes, and some student loan obligations. And, unless you have an acceptable plan to catch up on your debt under Chapter 13, bankruptcy usually does not allow you to keep property when your creditor has an unpaid mortgage or security lien on it.
Another major change to the bankruptcy laws involves certain hurdles that a consumer must clear before even filing for bankruptcy, no matter what the chapter. You must get credit counseling from a government-approved organization within six months before you file for any bankruptcy relief. You can find a state-by-state list of government-approved organizations at www.usdoj.gov/ust. That is the website of the U.S. Trustee Program, the organization within the U.S. Department of Justice that supervises bankruptcy cases and trustees. Also, before you file a Chapter 7 bankruptcy case, you must satisfy a “means test.” This test requires you to confirm that your income does not exceed a certain amount. The amount varies by state and is publicized by the U.S. Trustee Program at www.usdoj.gov/ust.
Debt Negotiation Programs
Debt negotiation differs greatly from credit counseling and DMPs. It can be very risky, and have a long term negative impact on your credit report and, in turn, your ability to get credit. That’s why many states have laws regulating debt negotiation companies and the services they offer. Contact your state Attorney General for more information.
The Claims
Debt negotiation firms may claim they’re nonprofit. They also may claim that they can arrange for your unsecured debt — typically credit card debt — to be paid off for anywhere from 10 to 50 percent of the balance owed. For example, if you owe $10,000 on a credit card, a debt negotiation firm may claim it can arrange for you to pay it off with a lesser amount, say $4,000.
The firms often pitch their services as an alternative to bankruptcy. They may claim that using their services will have little or no negative impact on your ability to get credit in the future, or that any negative information can be removed from your credit report when you complete their debt negotiation program. The firms usually tell you to stop making payments to your creditors, and instead, send payments to the debt negotiation company. The firm may promise to hold your funds in a special account and pay your creditors on your behalf.
The Truth
Just because a debt negotiation company describes itself as a “nonprofit” organization, there’s no guarantee that the services they offer are legitimate. There also is no guarantee that a creditor will accept partial payment of a legitimate debt. In fact, if you stop making payments on a credit card, late fees and interest usually are added to the debt each month. If you exceed your credit limit, additional fees and charges also can be added. This can cause your original debt to double or triple. What’s more, most debt negotiation companies charge consumers substantial fees for their services, including a fee to establish the account with the debt negotiator, a monthly service fee, and a final fee of a percentage of the money you’ve supposedly saved.
While creditors have no obligation to agree to negotiate the amount a consumer owes, they have a legal obligation to provide accurate information to the credit reporting agencies, including your failure to make monthly payments. That can result in a negative entry on your credit report. And in certain situations, creditors may have the right to sue you to recover the money you owe. In some instances, when creditors win a lawsuit, they have the right to garnish your wages or put a lien on your home. Finally, the Internal Revenue Service may consider any amount of forgiven debt to be taxable income.
Damage Control
Turning to a business that offers help in solving debt problems may seem like a reasonable solution when your bills become unmanageable. But before you do business with any company, check it out with your state Attorney General, local consumer protection agency, and the Better Business Bureau. They can tell you if any consumer complaints are on file about the firm you’re considering doing business with. Ask your state Attorney General if the company is required to be licensed to work in your state and, if so, whether it is.
Some businesses that offer to help you with your debt problems may charge high fees and fail to follow through on the services they sell. Others may misrepresent the terms of a debt consolidation loan, failing to explain certain costs or mention that you’re signing over your home as collateral. Businesses advertising voluntary debt reorganization plans may not explain that the plan is a bankruptcy filing, tell you everything that’s involved, or help you through what can be a long and complex process.
In addition, some companies guarantee you a loan if you pay a fee in advance. The fee may range from $100 to several hundred dollars. Resist the temptation to follow up on these advance-fee loan guarantees. They may be illegal. It is true that many legitimate creditors offer extensions of credit through telemarketing and require an application or appraisal fee in advance. But legitimate creditors never guarantee that the consumer will get the loan — or even represent that a loan is likely. Under the federal Telemarketing Sales Rule, a seller or tele-marketer who guarantees or represents a high likelihood of your getting a loan or some other extension of credit may not ask for or accept payment until you’ve received the loan.
You should be cautious of claims from so-called credit repair clinics. Many companies appeal to consumers with poor credit histories, promising to clean up credit reports for a fee. But you already have the right to have any inaccurate information in your file corrected. And a credit repair clinic cannot have accurate information removed from your credit report, despite their promises. You also should know that federal and some state laws prohibit these companies from charging you for their services until the services are fully performed. Only time and a conscientious effort to repay your debts will improve your credit report.
If you’re thinking about getting help to stabilize your financial situation, do some homework first. Find out what services a business provides and what it costs, and don’t rely on verbal promises. Get everything in writing, and read your contracts carefully.
Having trouble paying your bills? Getting dunning notices from creditors? Are your accounts being turned over to debt collectors? Are you worried about losing your home or your car?
You’re not alone. Many people face a financial crisis some time in their lives. Whether the crisis is caused by personal or family illness, the loss of a job, or overspending, it can seem overwhelming. But often, it can be overcome. Your financial situation doesn’t have to go from bad to worse.
If you or someone you know is in financial hot water, consider these options: realistic budgeting, credit counseling from a reputable organization, debt consolidation, or bankruptcy. Debt negotiation is yet another option. How do you know which will work best for you? It depends on your level of debt, your level of discipline, and your prospects for the future.
Self-Help
Developing a Budget: The first step toward taking control of your financial situation is to do a realistic assessment of how much money you take in and how much money you spend. Start by listing your income from all sources. Then, list your “fixed” expenses — those that are the same each month — like mortgage payments or rent, car payments, and insurance premiums. Next, list the expenses that vary — like entertainment, recreation, and clothing. Writing down all your expenses, even those that seem insignificant, is a helpful way to track your spending patterns, identify necessary expenses, and prioritize the rest. The goal is to make sure you can make ends meet on the basics: housing, food, health care, insurance, and education.
Your public library and bookstores have information about budgeting and money management techniques. In addition, computer software programs can be useful tools for developing and maintaining a budget, balancing your checkbook, and creating plans to save money and pay down your debt.
Contacting Your Creditors: Contact your creditors immediately if you’re having trouble making ends meet. Tell them why it’s difficult for you, and try to work out a modified payment plan that reduces your payments to a more manageable level. Don’t wait until your accounts have been turned over to a debt collector. At that point, your creditors have given up on you.
Dealing with Debt Collectors: The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act is the federal law that dictates how and when a debt collector may contact you. A debt collector may not call you before 8 a.m., after 9 p.m., or while you’re at work if the collector knows that your employer doesn’t approve of the calls. Collectors may not harass you, lie, or use unfair practices when they try to collect a debt. And they must honor a written request from you to stop further contact.
Managing Your Auto and Home Loans: Your debts can be unsecured or secured. Secured debts usually are tied to an asset, like your car for a car loan, or your house for a mortgage. If you stop making payments, lenders can repossess your car or foreclose on your house. Unsecured debts are not tied to any asset, and include most credit card debt, bills for medical care, signature loans, and debts for other types of services.
Most automobile financing agreements allow a creditor to repossess your car any time you’re in default. No notice is required. If your car is repossessed, you may have to pay the balance due on the loan, as well as towing and storage costs, to get it back. If you can’t do this, the creditor may sell the car. If you see default approaching, you may be better off selling the car yourself and paying off the debt: You’ll avoid the added costs of repossession and a negative entry on your credit report.
If you fall behind on your mortgage, contact your lender immediately to avoid foreclosure. Most lenders are willing to work with you if they believe you’re acting in good faith and the situation is temporary. Some lenders may reduce or suspend your payments for a short time. When you resume regular payments, though, you may have to pay an additional amount toward the past due total. Other lenders may agree to change the terms of the mortgage by extending the repayment period to reduce the monthly debt. Ask whether additional fees would be assessed for these changes, and calculate how much they total in the long term.
If you and your lender cannot work out a plan, contact a housing counseling agency. Some agencies limit their counseling services to homeowners with FHA mortgages, but many offer free help to any homeowner who’s having trouble making mortgage payments. Call the local office of the Department of Housing and Urban Development or the housing authority in your state, city, or county for help in finding a legitimate housing counseling agency near you
Credit Counseling and Debt Management Plans
Credit Counseling: If you’re not disciplined enough to create a workable budget and stick to it, can’t work out a repayment plan with your creditors, or can’t keep track of mounting bills, consider contacting a credit counseling organization. Many credit counseling organizations are nonprofit and work with you to solve your financial problems. But be aware that, just because an organization says it’s “nonprofit,” there’s no guarantee that its services are free, affordable, or even legitimate. In fact, some credit counseling organizations charge high fees, which may be hidden, or urge consumers to make “voluntary” contributions that can cause more debt.
Most credit counselors offer services through local offices, the Internet, or on the telephone. If possible, find an organization that offers in-person counseling. Many universities, military bases, credit unions, housing authorities, and branches of the U.S. Cooperative Extension Service operate nonprofit credit counseling programs. Your financial institution, local consumer protection agency, and friends and family also may be good sources of information and referrals.
Reputable credit counseling organizations can advise you on managing your money and debts, help you develop a budget, and offer free educational materials and workshops. Their counselors are certified and trained in the areas of consumer credit, money and debt management, and budgeting. Counselors discuss your entire financial situation with you, and help you develop a personalized plan to solve your money problems. An initial counseling session typically lasts an hour, with an offer of follow-up sessions.
Debt Management Plans: If your financial problems stem from too much debt or your inability to repay your debts, a credit counseling agency may recommend that you enroll in a debt management plan (DMP). A DMP alone is not credit counseling, and DMPs are not for everyone. You should sign up for one of these plans only after a certified credit counselor has spent time thoroughly reviewing your financial situation, and has offered you customized advice on managing your money. Even if a DMP is appropriate for you, a reputable credit counseling organization still can help you create a budget and teach you money management skills.
In a DMP, you deposit money each month with the credit counseling organization, which uses your deposits to pay your unsecured debts, like your credit card bills, student loans, and medical bills, according to a payment schedule the counselor develops with you and your creditors. Your creditors may agree to lower your interest rates or waive certain fees, but check with all your creditors to be sure they offer the concessions that a credit counseling organization describes to you. A successful DMP requires you to make regular, timely payments, and could take 48 months or more to complete. Ask the credit counselor to estimate how long it will take for you to complete the plan. You may have to agree not to apply for — or use — any additional credit while you’re participating in the plan.
Protect Yourself
Be wary of credit counseling organizations that:
charge high up-front or monthly fees for enrolling in credit counseling or a DMP.
pressure you to make “voluntary contributions,” another name for fees.
won’t send you free information about the services they provide without requiring you to provide personal financial information, such as credit card account numbers, and balances.
try to enroll you in a DMP without spending time reviewing your financial situation.
offer to enroll you in a DMP without teaching you budgeting and money management skills.
demand that you make payments into a DMP before your creditors have accepted you into the program.
Debt Consolidation
You may be able to lower your cost of credit by consolidating your debt through a second mortgage or a home equity line of credit. Remember that these loans require you to put up your home as collateral. If you can’t make the payments — or if your payments are late — you could lose your home.
What’s more, the costs of consolidation loans can add up. In addition to interest on the loans, you may have to pay “points,” with one point equal to one percent of the amount you borrow. Still, these loans may provide certain tax advantages that are not available with other kinds of credit.
Bankruptcy
Personal bankruptcy generally is considered the debt management option of last resort because the results are long-lasting and far reaching. People who follow the bankruptcy rules receive a discharge — a court order that says they don’t have to repay certain debts. However, bankruptcy information (both the date of your filing and the later date of discharge) stay on your credit report for 10 years, and can make it difficult to obtain credit, buy a home, get life insurance, or sometimes get a job. Still, bankruptcy is a legal procedure that offers a fresh start for people who have gotten into financial difficulty and can’t satisfy their debts.
There are two primary types of personal bankruptcy: Chapter 13 and Chapter 7. Each must be filed in federal bankruptcy court. As of April 2006, the filing fees run about $274 for Chapter 13 and $299 for Chapter 7. Attorney fees are additional and can vary.
Effective October 2005, Congress made sweeping changes to the bankruptcy laws. The net effect of these changes is to give consumers more incentive to seek bankruptcy relief under Chapter 13 rather than Chapter 7. Chapter 13 allows people with a steady income to keep property, like a mortgaged house or a car, that they might otherwise lose through the bankruptcy process. In Chapter 13, the court approves a repayment plan that allows you to use your future income to pay off your debts during a three-to-five-year period, rather than surrender any property. After you have made all the payments under the plan, you receive a discharge of your debts.
Chapter 7 is known as straight bankruptcy, and involves liquidation of all assets that are not exempt. Exempt property may include automobiles, work-related tools, and basic household furnishings. Some of your property may be sold by a court-appointed official — a trustee — or turned over to your creditors. The new bankruptcy laws have changed the time period during which you can receive a discharge through Chapter 7. You now must wait 8 years after receiving a discharge in Chapter 7 before you can file again under that chapter. The Chapter 13 waiting period is much shorter and can be as little as two years between filings.
Both types of bankruptcy may get rid of unsecured debts and stop foreclosures, repossessions, garnishments and utility shut-offs, and debt collection activities. Both also provide exemptions that allow people to keep certain assets, although exemption amounts vary by state. Note that personal bankruptcy usually does not erase child support, alimony, fines, taxes, and some student loan obligations. And, unless you have an acceptable plan to catch up on your debt under Chapter 13, bankruptcy usually does not allow you to keep property when your creditor has an unpaid mortgage or security lien on it.
Another major change to the bankruptcy laws involves certain hurdles that a consumer must clear before even filing for bankruptcy, no matter what the chapter. You must get credit counseling from a government-approved organization within six months before you file for any bankruptcy relief. You can find a state-by-state list of government-approved organizations at www.usdoj.gov/ust. That is the website of the U.S. Trustee Program, the organization within the U.S. Department of Justice that supervises bankruptcy cases and trustees. Also, before you file a Chapter 7 bankruptcy case, you must satisfy a “means test.” This test requires you to confirm that your income does not exceed a certain amount. The amount varies by state and is publicized by the U.S. Trustee Program at www.usdoj.gov/ust.
Debt Negotiation Programs
Debt negotiation differs greatly from credit counseling and DMPs. It can be very risky, and have a long term negative impact on your credit report and, in turn, your ability to get credit. That’s why many states have laws regulating debt negotiation companies and the services they offer. Contact your state Attorney General for more information.
The Claims
Debt negotiation firms may claim they’re nonprofit. They also may claim that they can arrange for your unsecured debt — typically credit card debt — to be paid off for anywhere from 10 to 50 percent of the balance owed. For example, if you owe $10,000 on a credit card, a debt negotiation firm may claim it can arrange for you to pay it off with a lesser amount, say $4,000.
The firms often pitch their services as an alternative to bankruptcy. They may claim that using their services will have little or no negative impact on your ability to get credit in the future, or that any negative information can be removed from your credit report when you complete their debt negotiation program. The firms usually tell you to stop making payments to your creditors, and instead, send payments to the debt negotiation company. The firm may promise to hold your funds in a special account and pay your creditors on your behalf.
The Truth
Just because a debt negotiation company describes itself as a “nonprofit” organization, there’s no guarantee that the services they offer are legitimate. There also is no guarantee that a creditor will accept partial payment of a legitimate debt. In fact, if you stop making payments on a credit card, late fees and interest usually are added to the debt each month. If you exceed your credit limit, additional fees and charges also can be added. This can cause your original debt to double or triple. What’s more, most debt negotiation companies charge consumers substantial fees for their services, including a fee to establish the account with the debt negotiator, a monthly service fee, and a final fee of a percentage of the money you’ve supposedly saved.
While creditors have no obligation to agree to negotiate the amount a consumer owes, they have a legal obligation to provide accurate information to the credit reporting agencies, including your failure to make monthly payments. That can result in a negative entry on your credit report. And in certain situations, creditors may have the right to sue you to recover the money you owe. In some instances, when creditors win a lawsuit, they have the right to garnish your wages or put a lien on your home. Finally, the Internal Revenue Service may consider any amount of forgiven debt to be taxable income.
Damage Control
Turning to a business that offers help in solving debt problems may seem like a reasonable solution when your bills become unmanageable. But before you do business with any company, check it out with your state Attorney General, local consumer protection agency, and the Better Business Bureau. They can tell you if any consumer complaints are on file about the firm you’re considering doing business with. Ask your state Attorney General if the company is required to be licensed to work in your state and, if so, whether it is.
Some businesses that offer to help you with your debt problems may charge high fees and fail to follow through on the services they sell. Others may misrepresent the terms of a debt consolidation loan, failing to explain certain costs or mention that you’re signing over your home as collateral. Businesses advertising voluntary debt reorganization plans may not explain that the plan is a bankruptcy filing, tell you everything that’s involved, or help you through what can be a long and complex process.
In addition, some companies guarantee you a loan if you pay a fee in advance. The fee may range from $100 to several hundred dollars. Resist the temptation to follow up on these advance-fee loan guarantees. They may be illegal. It is true that many legitimate creditors offer extensions of credit through telemarketing and require an application or appraisal fee in advance. But legitimate creditors never guarantee that the consumer will get the loan — or even represent that a loan is likely. Under the federal Telemarketing Sales Rule, a seller or tele-marketer who guarantees or represents a high likelihood of your getting a loan or some other extension of credit may not ask for or accept payment until you’ve received the loan.
You should be cautious of claims from so-called credit repair clinics. Many companies appeal to consumers with poor credit histories, promising to clean up credit reports for a fee. But you already have the right to have any inaccurate information in your file corrected. And a credit repair clinic cannot have accurate information removed from your credit report, despite their promises. You also should know that federal and some state laws prohibit these companies from charging you for their services until the services are fully performed. Only time and a conscientious effort to repay your debts will improve your credit report.
If you’re thinking about getting help to stabilize your financial situation, do some homework first. Find out what services a business provides and what it costs, and don’t rely on verbal promises. Get everything in writing, and read your contracts carefully.
Having trouble paying your bills? Getting dunning notices from creditors? Are your accounts being turned over to debt collectors? Are you worried about losing your home or your car?
You’re not alone. Many people face a financial crisis some time in their lives. Whether the crisis is caused by personal or family illness, the loss of a job, or overspending, it can seem overwhelming. But often, it can be overcome. Your financial situation doesn’t have to go from bad to worse.
If you or someone you know is in financial hot water, consider these options: realistic budgeting, credit counseling from a reputable organization, debt consolidation, or bankruptcy. Debt negotiation is yet another option. How do you know which will work best for you? It depends on your level of debt, your level of discipline, and your prospects for the future.
Self-Help
Developing a Budget: The first step toward taking control of your financial situation is to do a realistic assessment of how much money you take in and how much money you spend. Start by listing your income from all sources. Then, list your “fixed” expenses — those that are the same each month — like mortgage payments or rent, car payments, and insurance premiums. Next, list the expenses that vary — like entertainment, recreation, and clothing. Writing down all your expenses, even those that seem insignificant, is a helpful way to track your spending patterns, identify necessary expenses, and prioritize the rest. The goal is to make sure you can make ends meet on the basics: housing, food, health care, insurance, and education.
Your public library and bookstores have information about budgeting and money management techniques. In addition, computer software programs can be useful tools for developing and maintaining a budget, balancing your checkbook, and creating plans to save money and pay down your debt.
Contacting Your Creditors: Contact your creditors immediately if you’re having trouble making ends meet. Tell them why it’s difficult for you, and try to work out a modified payment plan that reduces your payments to a more manageable level. Don’t wait until your accounts have been turned over to a debt collector. At that point, your creditors have given up on you.
Dealing with Debt Collectors: The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act is the federal law that dictates how and when a debt collector may contact you. A debt collector may not call you before 8 a.m., after 9 p.m., or while you’re at work if the collector knows that your employer doesn’t approve of the calls. Collectors may not harass you, lie, or use unfair practices when they try to collect a debt. And they must honor a written request from you to stop further contact.
Managing Your Auto and Home Loans: Your debts can be unsecured or secured. Secured debts usually are tied to an asset, like your car for a car loan, or your house for a mortgage. If you stop making payments, lenders can repossess your car or foreclose on your house. Unsecured debts are not tied to any asset, and include most credit card debt, bills for medical care, signature loans, and debts for other types of services.
Most automobile financing agreements allow a creditor to repossess your car any time you’re in default. No notice is required. If your car is repossessed, you may have to pay the balance due on the loan, as well as towing and storage costs, to get it back. If you can’t do this, the creditor may sell the car. If you see default approaching, you may be better off selling the car yourself and paying off the debt: You’ll avoid the added costs of repossession and a negative entry on your credit report.
If you fall behind on your mortgage, contact your lender immediately to avoid foreclosure. Most lenders are willing to work with you if they believe you’re acting in good faith and the situation is temporary. Some lenders may reduce or suspend your payments for a short time. When you resume regular payments, though, you may have to pay an additional amount toward the past due total. Other lenders may agree to change the terms of the mortgage by extending the repayment period to reduce the monthly debt. Ask whether additional fees would be assessed for these changes, and calculate how much they total in the long term.
If you and your lender cannot work out a plan, contact a housing counseling agency. Some agencies limit their counseling services to homeowners with FHA mortgages, but many offer free help to any homeowner who’s having trouble making mortgage payments. Call the local office of the Department of Housing and Urban Development or the housing authority in your state, city, or county for help in finding a legitimate housing counseling agency near you
Credit Counseling and Debt Management Plans
Credit Counseling: If you’re not disciplined enough to create a workable budget and stick to it, can’t work out a repayment plan with your creditors, or can’t keep track of mounting bills, consider contacting a credit counseling organization. Many credit counseling organizations are nonprofit and work with you to solve your financial problems. But be aware that, just because an organization says it’s “nonprofit,” there’s no guarantee that its services are free, affordable, or even legitimate. In fact, some credit counseling organizations charge high fees, which may be hidden, or urge consumers to make “voluntary” contributions that can cause more debt.
Most credit counselors offer services through local offices, the Internet, or on the telephone. If possible, find an organization that offers in-person counseling. Many universities, military bases, credit unions, housing authorities, and branches of the U.S. Cooperative Extension Service operate nonprofit credit counseling programs. Your financial institution, local consumer protection agency, and friends and family also may be good sources of information and referrals.
Reputable credit counseling organizations can advise you on managing your money and debts, help you develop a budget, and offer free educational materials and workshops. Their counselors are certified and trained in the areas of consumer credit, money and debt management, and budgeting. Counselors discuss your entire financial situation with you, and help you develop a personalized plan to solve your money problems. An initial counseling session typically lasts an hour, with an offer of follow-up sessions.
Debt Management Plans: If your financial problems stem from too much debt or your inability to repay your debts, a credit counseling agency may recommend that you enroll in a debt management plan (DMP). A DMP alone is not credit counseling, and DMPs are not for everyone. You should sign up for one of these plans only after a certified credit counselor has spent time thoroughly reviewing your financial situation, and has offered you customized advice on managing your money. Even if a DMP is appropriate for you, a reputable credit counseling organization still can help you create a budget and teach you money management skills.
In a DMP, you deposit money each month with the credit counseling organization, which uses your deposits to pay your unsecured debts, like your credit card bills, student loans, and medical bills, according to a payment schedule the counselor develops with you and your creditors. Your creditors may agree to lower your interest rates or waive certain fees, but check with all your creditors to be sure they offer the concessions that a credit counseling organization describes to you. A successful DMP requires you to make regular, timely payments, and could take 48 months or more to complete. Ask the credit counselor to estimate how long it will take for you to complete the plan. You may have to agree not to apply for — or use — any additional credit while you’re participating in the plan.
Protect Yourself
Be wary of credit counseling organizations that:
charge high up-front or monthly fees for enrolling in credit counseling or a DMP.
pressure you to make “voluntary contributions,” another name for fees.
won’t send you free information about the services they provide without requiring you to provide personal financial information, such as credit card account numbers, and balances.
try to enroll you in a DMP without spending time reviewing your financial situation.
offer to enroll you in a DMP without teaching you budgeting and money management skills.
demand that you make payments into a DMP before your creditors have accepted you into the program.
Debt Consolidation
You may be able to lower your cost of credit by consolidating your debt through a second mortgage or a home equity line of credit. Remember that these loans require you to put up your home as collateral. If you can’t make the payments — or if your payments are late — you could lose your home.
What’s more, the costs of consolidation loans can add up. In addition to interest on the loans, you may have to pay “points,” with one point equal to one percent of the amount you borrow. Still, these loans may provide certain tax advantages that are not available with other kinds of credit.
Bankruptcy
Personal bankruptcy generally is considered the debt management option of last resort because the results are long-lasting and far reaching. People who follow the bankruptcy rules receive a discharge — a court order that says they don’t have to repay certain debts. However, bankruptcy information (both the date of your filing and the later date of discharge) stay on your credit report for 10 years, and can make it difficult to obtain credit, buy a home, get life insurance, or sometimes get a job. Still, bankruptcy is a legal procedure that offers a fresh start for people who have gotten into financial difficulty and can’t satisfy their debts.
There are two primary types of personal bankruptcy: Chapter 13 and Chapter 7. Each must be filed in federal bankruptcy court. As of April 2006, the filing fees run about $274 for Chapter 13 and $299 for Chapter 7. Attorney fees are additional and can vary.
Effective October 2005, Congress made sweeping changes to the bankruptcy laws. The net effect of these changes is to give consumers more incentive to seek bankruptcy relief under Chapter 13 rather than Chapter 7. Chapter 13 allows people with a steady income to keep property, like a mortgaged house or a car, that they might otherwise lose through the bankruptcy process. In Chapter 13, the court approves a repayment plan that allows you to use your future income to pay off your debts during a three-to-five-year period, rather than surrender any property. After you have made all the payments under the plan, you receive a discharge of your debts.
Chapter 7 is known as straight bankruptcy, and involves liquidation of all assets that are not exempt. Exempt property may include automobiles, work-related tools, and basic household furnishings. Some of your property may be sold by a court-appointed official — a trustee — or turned over to your creditors. The new bankruptcy laws have changed the time period during which you can receive a discharge through Chapter 7. You now must wait 8 years after receiving a discharge in Chapter 7 before you can file again under that chapter. The Chapter 13 waiting period is much shorter and can be as little as two years between filings.
Both types of bankruptcy may get rid of unsecured debts and stop foreclosures, repossessions, garnishments and utility shut-offs, and debt collection activities. Both also provide exemptions that allow people to keep certain assets, although exemption amounts vary by state. Note that personal bankruptcy usually does not erase child support, alimony, fines, taxes, and some student loan obligations. And, unless you have an acceptable plan to catch up on your debt under Chapter 13, bankruptcy usually does not allow you to keep property when your creditor has an unpaid mortgage or security lien on it.
Another major change to the bankruptcy laws involves certain hurdles that a consumer must clear before even filing for bankruptcy, no matter what the chapter. You must get credit counseling from a government-approved organization within six months before you file for any bankruptcy relief. You can find a state-by-state list of government-approved organizations at www.usdoj.gov/ust. That is the website of the U.S. Trustee Program, the organization within the U.S. Department of Justice that supervises bankruptcy cases and trustees. Also, before you file a Chapter 7 bankruptcy case, you must satisfy a “means test.” This test requires you to confirm that your income does not exceed a certain amount. The amount varies by state and is publicized by the U.S. Trustee Program at www.usdoj.gov/ust.
Debt Negotiation Programs
Debt negotiation differs greatly from credit counseling and DMPs. It can be very risky, and have a long term negative impact on your credit report and, in turn, your ability to get credit. That’s why many states have laws regulating debt negotiation companies and the services they offer. Contact your state Attorney General for more information.
The Claims
Debt negotiation firms may claim they’re nonprofit. They also may claim that they can arrange for your unsecured debt — typically credit card debt — to be paid off for anywhere from 10 to 50 percent of the balance owed. For example, if you owe $10,000 on a credit card, a debt negotiation firm may claim it can arrange for you to pay it off with a lesser amount, say $4,000.
The firms often pitch their services as an alternative to bankruptcy. They may claim that using their services will have little or no negative impact on your ability to get credit in the future, or that any negative information can be removed from your credit report when you complete their debt negotiation program. The firms usually tell you to stop making payments to your creditors, and instead, send payments to the debt negotiation company. The firm may promise to hold your funds in a special account and pay your creditors on your behalf.
The Truth
Just because a debt negotiation company describes itself as a “nonprofit” organization, there’s no guarantee that the services they offer are legitimate. There also is no guarantee that a creditor will accept partial payment of a legitimate debt. In fact, if you stop making payments on a credit card, late fees and interest usually are added to the debt each month. If you exceed your credit limit, additional fees and charges also can be added. This can cause your original debt to double or triple. What’s more, most debt negotiation companies charge consumers substantial fees for their services, including a fee to establish the account with the debt negotiator, a monthly service fee, and a final fee of a percentage of the money you’ve supposedly saved.
While creditors have no obligation to agree to negotiate the amount a consumer owes, they have a legal obligation to provide accurate information to the credit reporting agencies, including your failure to make monthly payments. That can result in a negative entry on your credit report. And in certain situations, creditors may have the right to sue you to recover the money you owe. In some instances, when creditors win a lawsuit, they have the right to garnish your wages or put a lien on your home. Finally, the Internal Revenue Service may consider any amount of forgiven debt to be taxable income.
Damage Control
Turning to a business that offers help in solving debt problems may seem like a reasonable solution when your bills become unmanageable. But before you do business with any company, check it out with your state Attorney General, local consumer protection agency, and the Better Business Bureau. They can tell you if any consumer complaints are on file about the firm you’re considering doing business with. Ask your state Attorney General if the company is required to be licensed to work in your state and, if so, whether it is.
Some businesses that offer to help you with your debt problems may charge high fees and fail to follow through on the services they sell. Others may misrepresent the terms of a debt consolidation loan, failing to explain certain costs or mention that you’re signing over your home as collateral. Businesses advertising voluntary debt reorganization plans may not explain that the plan is a bankruptcy filing, tell you everything that’s involved, or help you through what can be a long and complex process.
In addition, some companies guarantee you a loan if you pay a fee in advance. The fee may range from $100 to several hundred dollars. Resist the temptation to follow up on these advance-fee loan guarantees. They may be illegal. It is true that many legitimate creditors offer extensions of credit through telemarketing and require an application or appraisal fee in advance. But legitimate creditors never guarantee that the consumer will get the loan — or even represent that a loan is likely. Under the federal Telemarketing Sales Rule, a seller or tele-marketer who guarantees or represents a high likelihood of your getting a loan or some other extension of credit may not ask for or accept payment until you’ve received the loan.
You should be cautious of claims from so-called credit repair clinics. Many companies appeal to consumers with poor credit histories, promising to clean up credit reports for a fee. But you already have the right to have any inaccurate information in your file corrected. And a credit repair clinic cannot have accurate information removed from your credit report, despite their promises. You also should know that federal and some state laws prohibit these companies from charging you for their services until the services are fully performed. Only time and a conscientious effort to repay your debts will improve your credit report.
If you’re thinking about getting help to stabilize your financial situation, do some homework first. Find out what services a business provides and what it costs, and don’t rely on verbal promises. Get everything in writing, and read your contracts carefully.
Having trouble paying your bills? Getting dunning notices from creditors? Are your accounts being turned over to debt collectors? Are you worried about losing your home or your car?
You’re not alone. Many people face a financial crisis some time in their lives. Whether the crisis is caused by personal or family illness, the loss of a job, or overspending, it can seem overwhelming. But often, it can be overcome. Your financial situation doesn’t have to go from bad to worse.
If you or someone you know is in financial hot water, consider these options: realistic budgeting, credit counseling from a reputable organization, debt consolidation, or bankruptcy. Debt negotiation is yet another option. How do you know which will work best for you? It depends on your level of debt, your level of discipline, and your prospects for the future.
Self-Help
Developing a Budget: The first step toward taking control of your financial situation is to do a realistic assessment of how much money you take in and how much money you spend. Start by listing your income from all sources. Then, list your “fixed” expenses — those that are the same each month — like mortgage payments or rent, car payments, and insurance premiums. Next, list the expenses that vary — like entertainment, recreation, and clothing. Writing down all your expenses, even those that seem insignificant, is a helpful way to track your spending patterns, identify necessary expenses, and prioritize the rest. The goal is to make sure you can make ends meet on the basics: housing, food, health care, insurance, and education.
Your public library and bookstores have information about budgeting and money management techniques. In addition, computer software programs can be useful tools for developing and maintaining a budget, balancing your checkbook, and creating plans to save money and pay down your debt.
Contacting Your Creditors: Contact your creditors immediately if you’re having trouble making ends meet. Tell them why it’s difficult for you, and try to work out a modified payment plan that reduces your payments to a more manageable level. Don’t wait until your accounts have been turned over to a debt collector. At that point, your creditors have given up on you.
Dealing with Debt Collectors: The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act is the federal law that dictates how and when a debt collector may contact you. A debt collector may not call you before 8 a.m., after 9 p.m., or while you’re at work if the collector knows that your employer doesn’t approve of the calls. Collectors may not harass you, lie, or use unfair practices when they try to collect a debt. And they must honor a written request from you to stop further contact.
Managing Your Auto and Home Loans: Your debts can be unsecured or secured. Secured debts usually are tied to an asset, like your car for a car loan, or your house for a mortgage. If you stop making payments, lenders can repossess your car or foreclose on your house. Unsecured debts are not tied to any asset, and include most credit card debt, bills for medical care, signature loans, and debts for other types of services.
Most automobile financing agreements allow a creditor to repossess your car any time you’re in default. No notice is required. If your car is repossessed, you may have to pay the balance due on the loan, as well as towing and storage costs, to get it back. If you can’t do this, the creditor may sell the car. If you see default approaching, you may be better off selling the car yourself and paying off the debt: You’ll avoid the added costs of repossession and a negative entry on your credit report.
If you fall behind on your mortgage, contact your lender immediately to avoid foreclosure. Most lenders are willing to work with you if they believe you’re acting in good faith and the situation is temporary. Some lenders may reduce or suspend your payments for a short time. When you resume regular payments, though, you may have to pay an additional amount toward the past due total. Other lenders may agree to change the terms of the mortgage by extending the repayment period to reduce the monthly debt. Ask whether additional fees would be assessed for these changes, and calculate how much they total in the long term.
If you and your lender cannot work out a plan, contact a housing counseling agency. Some agencies limit their counseling services to homeowners with FHA mortgages, but many offer free help to any homeowner who’s having trouble making mortgage payments. Call the local office of the Department of Housing and Urban Development or the housing authority in your state, city, or county for help in finding a legitimate housing counseling agency near you
Credit Counseling and Debt Management Plans
Credit Counseling: If you’re not disciplined enough to create a workable budget and stick to it, can’t work out a repayment plan with your creditors, or can’t keep track of mounting bills, consider contacting a credit counseling organization. Many credit counseling organizations are nonprofit and work with you to solve your financial problems. But be aware that, just because an organization says it’s “nonprofit,” there’s no guarantee that its services are free, affordable, or even legitimate. In fact, some credit counseling organizations charge high fees, which may be hidden, or urge consumers to make “voluntary” contributions that can cause more debt.
Most credit counselors offer services through local offices, the Internet, or on the telephone. If possible, find an organization that offers in-person counseling. Many universities, military bases, credit unions, housing authorities, and branches of the U.S. Cooperative Extension Service operate nonprofit credit counseling programs. Your financial institution, local consumer protection agency, and friends and family also may be good sources of information and referrals.
Reputable credit counseling organizations can advise you on managing your money and debts, help you develop a budget, and offer free educational materials and workshops. Their counselors are certified and trained in the areas of consumer credit, money and debt management, and budgeting. Counselors discuss your entire financial situation with you, and help you develop a personalized plan to solve your money problems. An initial counseling session typically lasts an hour, with an offer of follow-up sessions.
Debt Management Plans: If your financial problems stem from too much debt or your inability to repay your debts, a credit counseling agency may recommend that you enroll in a debt management plan (DMP). A DMP alone is not credit counseling, and DMPs are not for everyone. You should sign up for one of these plans only after a certified credit counselor has spent time thoroughly reviewing your financial situation, and has offered you customized advice on managing your money. Even if a DMP is appropriate for you, a reputable credit counseling organization still can help you create a budget and teach you money management skills.
In a DMP, you deposit money each month with the credit counseling organization, which uses your deposits to pay your unsecured debts, like your credit card bills, student loans, and medical bills, according to a payment schedule the counselor develops with you and your creditors. Your creditors may agree to lower your interest rates or waive certain fees, but check with all your creditors to be sure they offer the concessions that a credit counseling organization describes to you. A successful DMP requires you to make regular, timely payments, and could take 48 months or more to complete. Ask the credit counselor to estimate how long it will take for you to complete the plan. You may have to agree not to apply for — or use — any additional credit while you’re participating in the plan.
Protect Yourself
Be wary of credit counseling organizations that:
charge high up-front or monthly fees for enrolling in credit counseling or a DMP.
pressure you to make “voluntary contributions,” another name for fees.
won’t send you free information about the services they provide without requiring you to provide personal financial information, such as credit card account numbers, and balances.
try to enroll you in a DMP without spending time reviewing your financial situation.
offer to enroll you in a DMP without teaching you budgeting and money management skills.
demand that you make payments into a DMP before your creditors have accepted you into the program.
Debt Consolidation
You may be able to lower your cost of credit by consolidating your debt through a second mortgage or a home equity line of credit. Remember that these loans require you to put up your home as collateral. If you can’t make the payments — or if your payments are late — you could lose your home.
What’s more, the costs of consolidation loans can add up. In addition to interest on the loans, you may have to pay “points,” with one point equal to one percent of the amount you borrow. Still, these loans may provide certain tax advantages that are not available with other kinds of credit.
Bankruptcy
Personal bankruptcy generally is considered the debt management option of last resort because the results are long-lasting and far reaching. People who follow the bankruptcy rules receive a discharge — a court order that says they don’t have to repay certain debts. However, bankruptcy information (both the date of your filing and the later date of discharge) stay on your credit report for 10 years, and can make it difficult to obtain credit, buy a home, get life insurance, or sometimes get a job. Still, bankruptcy is a legal procedure that offers a fresh start for people who have gotten into financial difficulty and can’t satisfy their debts.
There are two primary types of personal bankruptcy: Chapter 13 and Chapter 7. Each must be filed in federal bankruptcy court. As of April 2006, the filing fees run about $274 for Chapter 13 and $299 for Chapter 7. Attorney fees are additional and can vary.
Effective October 2005, Congress made sweeping changes to the bankruptcy laws. The net effect of these changes is to give consumers more incentive to seek bankruptcy relief under Chapter 13 rather than Chapter 7. Chapter 13 allows people with a steady income to keep property, like a mortgaged house or a car, that they might otherwise lose through the bankruptcy process. In Chapter 13, the court approves a repayment plan that allows you to use your future income to pay off your debts during a three-to-five-year period, rather than surrender any property. After you have made all the payments under the plan, you receive a discharge of your debts.
Chapter 7 is known as straight bankruptcy, and involves liquidation of all assets that are not exempt. Exempt property may include automobiles, work-related tools, and basic household furnishings. Some of your property may be sold by a court-appointed official — a trustee — or turned over to your creditors. The new bankruptcy laws have changed the time period during which you can receive a discharge through Chapter 7. You now must wait 8 years after receiving a discharge in Chapter 7 before you can file again under that chapter. The Chapter 13 waiting period is much shorter and can be as little as two years between filings.
Both types of bankruptcy may get rid of unsecured debts and stop foreclosures, repossessions, garnishments and utility shut-offs, and debt collection activities. Both also provide exemptions that allow people to keep certain assets, although exemption amounts vary by state. Note that personal bankruptcy usually does not erase child support, alimony, fines, taxes, and some student loan obligations. And, unless you have an acceptable plan to catch up on your debt under Chapter 13, bankruptcy usually does not allow you to keep property when your creditor has an unpaid mortgage or security lien on it.
Another major change to the bankruptcy laws involves certain hurdles that a consumer must clear before even filing for bankruptcy, no matter what the chapter. You must get credit counseling from a government-approved organization within six months before you file for any bankruptcy relief. You can find a state-by-state list of government-approved organizations at www.usdoj.gov/ust. That is the website of the U.S. Trustee Program, the organization within the U.S. Department of Justice that supervises bankruptcy cases and trustees. Also, before you file a Chapter 7 bankruptcy case, you must satisfy a “means test.” This test requires you to confirm that your income does not exceed a certain amount. The amount varies by state and is publicized by the U.S. Trustee Program at www.usdoj.gov/ust.
Debt Negotiation Programs
Debt negotiation differs greatly from credit counseling and DMPs. It can be very risky, and have a long term negative impact on your credit report and, in turn, your ability to get credit. That’s why many states have laws regulating debt negotiation companies and the services they offer. Contact your state Attorney General for more information.
The Claims
Debt negotiation firms may claim they’re nonprofit. They also may claim that they can arrange for your unsecured debt — typically credit card debt — to be paid off for anywhere from 10 to 50 percent of the balance owed. For example, if you owe $10,000 on a credit card, a debt negotiation firm may claim it can arrange for you to pay it off with a lesser amount, say $4,000.
The firms often pitch their services as an alternative to bankruptcy. They may claim that using their services will have little or no negative impact on your ability to get credit in the future, or that any negative information can be removed from your credit report when you complete their debt negotiation program. The firms usually tell you to stop making payments to your creditors, and instead, send payments to the debt negotiation company. The firm may promise to hold your funds in a special account and pay your creditors on your behalf.
The Truth
Just because a debt negotiation company describes itself as a “nonprofit” organization, there’s no guarantee that the services they offer are legitimate. There also is no guarantee that a creditor will accept partial payment of a legitimate debt. In fact, if you stop making payments on a credit card, late fees and interest usually are added to the debt each month. If you exceed your credit limit, additional fees and charges also can be added. This can cause your original debt to double or triple. What’s more, most debt negotiation companies charge consumers substantial fees for their services, including a fee to establish the account with the debt negotiator, a monthly service fee, and a final fee of a percentage of the money you’ve supposedly saved.
While creditors have no obligation to agree to negotiate the amount a consumer owes, they have a legal obligation to provide accurate information to the credit reporting agencies, including your failure to make monthly payments. That can result in a negative entry on your credit report. And in certain situations, creditors may have the right to sue you to recover the money you owe. In some instances, when creditors win a lawsuit, they have the right to garnish your wages or put a lien on your home. Finally, the Internal Revenue Service may consider any amount of forgiven debt to be taxable income.
Damage Control
Turning to a business that offers help in solving debt problems may seem like a reasonable solution when your bills become unmanageable. But before you do business with any company, check it out with your state Attorney General, local consumer protection agency, and the Better Business Bureau. They can tell you if any consumer complaints are on file about the firm you’re considering doing business with. Ask your state Attorney General if the company is required to be licensed to work in your state and, if so, whether it is.
Some businesses that offer to help you with your debt problems may charge high fees and fail to follow through on the services they sell. Others may misrepresent the terms of a debt consolidation loan, failing to explain certain costs or mention that you’re signing over your home as collateral. Businesses advertising voluntary debt reorganization plans may not explain that the plan is a bankruptcy filing, tell you everything that’s involved, or help you through what can be a long and complex process.
In addition, some companies guarantee you a loan if you pay a fee in advance. The fee may range from $100 to several hundred dollars. Resist the temptation to follow up on these advance-fee loan guarantees. They may be illegal. It is true that many legitimate creditors offer extensions of credit through telemarketing and require an application or appraisal fee in advance. But legitimate creditors never guarantee that the consumer will get the loan — or even represent that a loan is likely. Under the federal Telemarketing Sales Rule, a seller or tele-marketer who guarantees or represents a high likelihood of your getting a loan or some other extension of credit may not ask for or accept payment until you’ve received the loan.
You should be cautious of claims from so-called credit repair clinics. Many companies appeal to consumers with poor credit histories, promising to clean up credit reports for a fee. But you already have the right to have any inaccurate information in your file corrected. And a credit repair clinic cannot have accurate information removed from your credit report, despite their promises. You also should know that federal and some state laws prohibit these companies from charging you for their services until the services are fully performed. Only time and a conscientious effort to repay your debts will improve your credit report.
If you’re thinking about getting help to stabilize your financial situation, do some homework first. Find out what services a business provides and what it costs, and don’t rely on verbal promises. Get everything in writing, and read your contracts carefully.By , at 3:16 AM
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mesothelioma
Mesothelioma
is a form of cancer that is almost always caused by exposure to Asbestos In this disease, malignant cells develop in the mesothelium, a protective lining that covers most of the body's internal organs. Its most common site is the pleura (outer lining of the lungs and internal chest wall), but it may also occur in the peritoneum (the lining of the abdominal cavity), the heart the pericardium (a sac that surrounds the heart or tunica vaginalis.
Most people who develop
mesothelioma
have worked on jobs where they inhaled asbestos particles, or they have been exposed to asbestos
dust and fiber in other ways. Washing the clothes of a family member who worked with asbestos
can also put a person at risk for developing Mesothelioma
Unlike lung cancer, there is no association between mesothelioma and smoking but smoking greatly increases risk of other asbestos induced cancer.Compensation via
Asbestos
funds or lawsuits is an important issue in
mesothelioma
The symptoms of
mesothelioma
include shortness of breath due to pleural effusion (fluid between the lung and the chest wall or chest wall pain, and general symptoms such as weight loss. The diagnosis may be suspected with chest X-ray and CT scan and is confirmed with a biopsy (tissue sample) and microscopic examination. A thoracoscopy inserting a tube with a camera into the chest) can be used to take biopsies. It allows the introduction of substances such as talc to obliterate the pleural space (called pleurodesis, which prevents more fluid from accumulating and pressing on the lung. Despite treatment with chemotherapy, radiation therapy or sometimes surgery, the disease carries a poor prognosis. Research about screening tests for the early detection of mesothelioma is ongoing.
Symptoms of mesothelioma may not appear until 20 to 50 years after exposure to asbestos. Shortness of breath, cough, and pain in the chest due to an accumulation of fluid in the pleural space are often symptoms of pleural
mesothelioma
Symptoms of peritoneal
mesothelioma
include weight loss and cachexia, abdominal swelling and pain due to ascites (a buildup of fluid in the abdominal cavity). Other symptoms of peritoneal
mesothelioma
may include bowel obstruction, blood clotting abnormalities, anemia, and fever. If the cancer has spread beyond the mesothelium to other parts of the body, symptoms may include pain, trouble swallowing, or swelling of the neck or face.
These symptoms may be caused by
mesothelioma
or by other, less serious conditions.
Mesothelioma
that affects the pleura can cause these signs and symptoms:
chest wall pain
pleural effusion, or fluid surrounding the lung
shortness of breath
fatigue or anemia
wheezing, hoarseness, or cough
blood in the sputum (fluid) coughed up hemoptysis
In severe cases, the person may have many tumor masses. The individual may develop a pneumothorax, or collapse of the lung The disease may metastasize, or spread, to other parts of the body.
Tumors that affect the abdominal cavity often do not cause symptoms until they are at a late stage. Symptoms include:
abdominal pain
ascites, or an abnormal buildup of fluid in the abdomen
a mass in the abdomen
problems with bowel function
weight loss
In severe cases of the disease, the following signs and symptoms may be present:
blood clots in the veins, which may cause thrombophlebitis
disseminated intravascular coagulation a disorder causing severe bleeding in many body organs
jaundice, or yellowing of the eyes and skin
low blood sugar level
pleural effusion
pulmonary emboli, or blood clots in the arteries of the lungs
severe ascites
A
mesothelioma
does not usually spread to the bone, brain, or adrenal glands. Pleural tumors are usually found only on one side of the lungs
Diagnosing
mesothelioma
is often difficult, because the symptoms are similar to those of a number of other conditions. Diagnosis begins with a review of the patient's medical history. A history of exposure to asbestos may increase clinical suspicion for
mesothelioma
A physical examination is performed, followed by chest X-ray and often lung function tests. The X-ray may reveal pleural thickening commonly seen after asbestos exposure and increases suspicion of
mesothelioma
A CT (or CAT) scan or an MRI is usually performed. If a large amount of fluid is present, abnormal cells may be detected by cytology if this fluid is aspirated with a syringe. For pleural fluid this is done by a pleural tap or chest drain, in ascites with an paracentesis or ascitic drain and in a pericardial effusion with pericardiocentesis. While absence of malignant cells on cytology does not completely exclude
mesothelioma
it makes it much more unlikely, especially if an alternative diagnosis can be made (e.g. tuberculosis, heart failure
If cytology is positive or a plaque is regarded as suspicious, a biopsy is needed to confirm a diagnosis of
mesothelioma
A doctor removes a sample of tissue for examination under a microscope by a pathologist. A biopsy may be done in different ways, depending on where the abnormal area is located. If the cancer is in the chest, the doctor may perform a thoracoscopy. In this procedure, the doctor makes a small cut through the chest wall and puts a thin, lighted tube called a thoracoscope into the chest between two ribs. Thoracoscopy allows the doctor to look inside the chest and obtain tissue samples.
If the cancer is in the abdomen, the doctor may perform a laparoscopy. To obtain tissue for examination, the doctor makes a small incision in the abdomen and inserts a special instrument into the abdominal cavity. If these procedures do not yield enough tissue, more extensive diagnostic surgery may be necessary.
There is no universally agreed protocol for screening people who have been exposed to
asbestos
Screening tests might diagnose mesothelioma earlier than conventional methods thus improving the survival prospects for patients. The serum osteopontin level might be useful in screening asbestos-exposed people for
mesothelioma
The level of soluble mesothelin-related protein is elevated in the serum of about 75% of patients at diagnosis and it has been suggested that it may be useful for screening. Doctors have begun testing the Mesomark assay which measures levels of soluble mesothelin-related proteins (SMRPs) released by diseased mesothelioma cells
Incidence
Although reported incidence rates have increased in the past 20 years, mesothelioma is still a relatively rare cancer. The incidence rate is approximately one per 1,000,000. The highest incidence is found in Britain, Australia and Belgium: 30 per 1,000,000 per year. For comparison, populations with high levels of smoking can have a lung cancer incidence of over 1,000 per 1,000,000. Incidence of malignant mesothelioma currently ranges from about 7 to 40 per 1,000,000 in industrialized Western nations, depending on the amount of asbestos exposure of the populations during the past several decades. It has been estimated that incidence may have peaked at 15 per 1,000,000 in the United States in 2004. Incidence is expected to continue increasing in other parts of the world. Mesothelioma occurs more often in men than in women and risk increases with age, but this disease can appear in either men or women at any age. Approximately one fifth to one third of all mesotheliomas are peritoneal.
Between 1940 and 1979, approximately 27.5 million people were occupationally exposed to asbestos in the United States.[ Between 1973 and 1984, there has been a threefold increase in the diagnosis of pleural mesothelioma in Caucasian males. From 1980 to the late 1990s, the death rate from mesothelioma in the USA increased from 2,000 per year to 3,000, with men four times more likely to acquire it than women. These rates may not be accurate, since it is possible that many cases of mesothelioma are misdiagnosed as adenocarcinoma of the lung, which is difficult to differentiate from mesothelioma.
Working with asbestos is the major risk factor for mesothelioma. A history of asbestos exposure exists in almost all cases. However, mesothelioma has been reported in some individuals without any known exposure to asbestos. In rare cases, mesothelioma has also been associated with irradiation, intrapleural thorium dioxide (Thorotrast), and inhalation of other fibrous silicates, such as erionite.
asbestos
is the name of a group of minerals that occur naturally as masses of strong, flexible fibers that can be separated into thin threads and woven.
asbestos
has been widely used in many industrial products, including cement, brake linings, roof shingles, flooring products, textiles, and insulation. If tiny asbestos particles float in the air, especially during the manufacturing process, they may be inhaled or swallowed, and can cause serious health problems. In addition to mesothelioma, exposure to asbestos increases the risk of lung cancer, asbestosis (a noncancerous, chronic lung ailment), and other cancers, such as those of the larynx and kidney.
The combination of smoking and
asbestos
exposure significantly increases a person's risk of developing cancer of the airways (lung cancer bronchial carcinoma). The Kent brand of cigarettes used
mesothelioma
in its filters for the first few years of production in the 1950s and some cases of
mesothelioma
have resulted. Smoking modern cigarettes does not appear to increase the risk of mesothelioma.
Some studies suggest that simian virus 40 may act as a cofactor in the development of mesothelioma.
Asbestos was known in antiquity, but it wasn't mined and widely used commercially until the late 1800s. Its use greatly increased during World War II Since the early 1940s, millions of American workers have been exposed to asbestos dust. Initially, the risks associated with
asbestos
exposure were not publicly known. However, an increased risk of developing mesothelioma was later found among shipyard workers, people who work in asbestos mines and mills, producers of asbestos products, workers in the heating and construction industries, and other tradespeople. Today, the U.S. Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) sets limits for acceptable levels of
asbestos
exposure in the workplace, and created guidelines for engineering controls and respirators, protective clothing, exposure monitoring, hygiene facilities and practices, warning signs, labeling, recordkeeping, and medical exams. By contrast, the British Government's Health and Safety Executive (HSE) states formally that any threshold for
mesothelioma
must be at a very low level and it is widely agreed that if any such threshold does exist at all, then it cannot currently be quantified. For practical purposes, therefore, HSE does not assume that any such threshold exists. People who work with
asbestos
wear personal protective equipment to lower their risk of exposure. Recent findings have shown that a mineral called erionite has been known to cause genetically pre-dispositioned individuals to have malignant mesothelioma rates much higher than those not pre-dispositioned genetically. A study in Cappadocia, Turkey has shown that 3 villiages in Turkey have death rates of 51% attributed to erionite related
mesothelioma
Exposure to
asbestos
fibres has been recognised as an occupational health hazard since the early 1900s. Several epidemiological studies have associated exposure to asbestos with the development of lesions such as asbestos bodies in the sputum, pleural plaques, diffuse pleural thickening, asbestosis, carcinoma of the lung and larynx, gastrointestinal tumours, and diffuse mesothelioma of the pleura and peritoneum.
The documented presence of
asbestos
fibres in water supplies and food products has fostered concerns about the possible impact of long-term and, as yet, unknown exposure of the general population to these fibres. Although many authorities consider brief or transient exposure to
asbestos
fibres as inconsequential and an unlikely risk factor, some epidemiologists claim that there is no risk threshold. Cases of mesothelioma have been found in people whose only exposure was breathing the air through ventilation systems. Other cases had very minimal (3 months or less) direct exposure.
Commercial
asbestos
mining at Wittenoom, Western Australia, occurred between 1945 and 1966. A cohort study of miners employed at the mine reported that while no deaths occurred within the first 10 years after crocidolite exposure, 85 deaths attributable to mesothelioma had occurred by 1985. By 1994, 539 reported deaths due to mesothelioma had been reported in Western Australia.
Family members and others living with
asbestos
workers have an increased risk of developing
mesothelioma
and possibly other asbestos related diseases. This risk may be the result of exposure to
asbestos
dust brought home on the clothing and hair of
asbestos
workers. To reduce the chance of exposing family members to asbestos fibres, asbestos workers are usually required to shower and change their clothing before leaving the workplace.
Many building materials used in both public and domestic premises prior to the banning of
asbestos
may contain
asbestos
Those performing renovation works or activities may expose themselves to asbestos dust. In the UK use of Chrysotile asbestos was banned at the end of 1999. Brown and blue
asbestos
was banned in the UK around 1985. Buildings built or renovated prior to these dates may contain asbestos materials.
For patients with localized disease, and who can tolerate a radical surgery, radiation is often given post-operatively as a consolidative treatment. The entire hemi-thorax is treated with radiation therapy, often given simultaneously with chemotherapy. Delivering radiation and chemotherapy after a radical surgery has led to extended life expectancy in selected patient populations with some patients surviving more than 5 years. As part of a curative approach to
mesothelioma
radiotherapy is also commonly applied to the sites of chest drain insertion, in order to prevent growth of the tumor along the track in the chest wall.
Although
mesothelioma
is generally resistant to curative treatment with radiotherapy alone, palliative treatment regimens are sometimes used to relieve symptoms arising from tumor growth, such as obstruction of a major blood vessel.
Radiation Therapy
when given alone with curative intent has never been shown to improve survival from
mesothelioma
The necessary radiation dose to treat mesothelioma that has not been surgically removed would be very toxic.
Chemotherapy is the only treatment for
mesothelioma
that has been proven to improve survival in randomised and controlled trials. The landmark study published in 2003 by Vogelzang and colleagues compared cisplatin chemotherapy alone with a combination of cisplatin and pemetrexed (brand name Alimta) chemotherapy) in patients who had not received chemotherapy for malignant pleural mesothelioma previously and were not candidates for more aggressive "curative" surgery. This trial was the first to report a survival advantage from chemotherapy in malignant pleural
mesothelioma
showing a statistically significant improvement in median survival from 10 months in the patients treated with cisplatin alone to 13.3 months in the combination pemetrexed group in patients who received supplementation with folate and vitamin B12. Vitamin supplementation was given to most patients in the trial and pemetrexed related side effects were significantly less in patients receiving pemetrexed when they also received daily oral folate 500mcg and intramuscular vitamin B12 1000mcg every 9 weeks compared with patients receiving pemetrexed without vitamin supplementation. The objective response rate increased from 20% in the cisplatin group to 46% in the combination pemetrexed group. Some side effects such as nausea and vomiting, stomatitis, and diarrhoea were more common in the combination pemetrexed group but only affected a minority of patients and overall the combination of pemetrexed and cisplatin was well tolerated when patients received vitamin supplementation; both quality of life and lung function tests improved in the combination pemetrexed group. In February 2004, the United States Food and Drug Administration approved pemetrexed for treatment of malignant pleural mesothelioma. However, there are still unanswered questions about the optimal use of chemotherapy, including when to start treatment, and the optimal number of cycles to give.
Cisplatin in combination with raltitrexed has shown an improvement in survival similar to that reported for pemetrexed in combination with cisplatin, but raltitrexed is no longer commercially available for this indication. For patients unable to tolerate pemetrexed, cisplatin in combination with gemcitabine or vinorelbine is an alternative, although a survival benefit has not been shown for these drugs. For patients in whom cisplatin cannot be used, carboplatin can be substituted but non-randomised data have shown lower response rates and high rates of haematological toxicity for carboplatin-based combinations, albeit with similar survival figures to patients receiving cisplatin.
In January 2009, the United States FDA approved using conventional therapies such as surgery in combination with radiation and or chemotherapy on stage I or II Mesothelioma after research conducted by a nationwide study by Duke University concluded an almost 50 point increase in remission rates.
Treatment regimens involving immunotherapy have yielded variable results. For example, intrapleural inoculation of Bacillus Calmette-Guérin (BCG) in an attempt to boost the immune response, was found to be of no benefit to the patient (while it may benefit patients with bladder cancer.
mesothelioma
cells proved susceptible to in vitro lysis by LAK cells following activation by interleukin-2 (IL-2), but patients undergoing this particular therapy experienced major side effects. Indeed, this trial was suspended in view of the unacceptably high levels of IL-2 toxicity and the severity of side effects such as fever and cachexia. Nonetheless, other trials involving interferon alpha have proved more encouraging with 20% of patients experiencing a greater than 50% reduction in tumor mass combined with minimal side effects.
A procedure known as heated intraoperative intraperitoneal chemotherapy was developed by Paul Sugarbaker at the Washington Cancer Institute. The surgeon removes as much of the tumor as possible followed by the direct administration of a chemotherapy agent, heated to between 40 and 48°C, in the abdomen. The fluid is perfused for 60 to 120 minutes and then drained.
This technique permits the administration of high concentrations of selected drugs into the abdominal and pelvic surfaces. Heating the chemotherapy treatment increases the penetration of the drugs into tissues. Also, heating itself damages the malignant cells more than the normal cells.
What is the mesothelium?
The mesothelium is a membrane that covers and protects most of the internal organs of the body. It is composed of two layers of cells: One layer immediately surrounds the organ; the other forms a sac around it. The mesothelium produces a lubricating fluid that is released between these layers, allowing moving organs (such as the beating heart and the expanding and contracting lungs to glide easily against adjacent structures.
The mesothelium has different names, depending on its location in the body. The peritoneum is the mesothelial tissue that covers most of the organs in the abdominal cavity. The pleura is the membrane that surrounds the lungs and lines the wall of the chest cavity. The pericardium covers and protects the heart. The
mesothelioma
tissue surrounding the male internal reproductive organs is called the tunica vaginalis testis. The tunica serosa uteri covers the internal reproductive organs in women.
What is mesothelioma?
mesothelioma
(cancer of the mesothelium) is a disease in which cells of the mesothelium become abnormal and divide without control or order. They can invade and damage nearby tissues and organs.
cancer
cells can also metastasize (spread) from their original site to other parts of the body. Most cases of mesothelioma begin in the pleura or peritoneum.
How common is mesothelioma?
Although reported incidence rates have increased in the past 20 years, mesothelioma is still a relatively rare cancer. About 2,000 new cases of mesothelioma are diagnosed in the United States each year. Mesothelioma occurs more often in men than in women and risk increases with age, but this disease can appear in either men or women at any age.
What are the risk factors for mesothelioma?
Working with asbestos is the major risk factor for mesothelioma. A history of asbestos exposure at work is reported in about 70 percent to 80 percent of all cases. However, mesothelioma has been reported in some individuals without any known exposure to asbestos.
Asbestos is the name of a group of minerals that occur naturally as masses of strong, flexible fibers that can be separated into thin threads and woven. Asbestos has been widely used in many industrial products, including cement, brake linings, roof shingles, flooring products, textiles, and insulation. If tiny asbestos particles float in the air, especially during the manufacturing process, they may be inhaled or swallowed, and can cause serious health problems. In addition to mesothelioma, exposure to asbestos increases the risk of lung cancer, asbestosis (a noncancerous, chronic lung ailment), and other cancers, such as those of the larynx and kidney.
Smoking does not appear to increase the risk of mesothelioma. However, the combination of smoking and asbestos exposure significantly increases a person's risk of developing cancer of the air passageways in the lung.
Who is at increased risk for developing mesothelioma?
Asbestos has been mined and used commercially since the late 1800s. Its use greatly increased during World War II. Since the early 1940s, millions of American workers have been exposed to asbestos dust. Initially, the risks associated with asbestos exposure were not known. However, an increased risk of developing mesothelioma was later found among shipyard workers, people who work in asbestos mines and mills, producers of asbestos products, workers in the heating and construction industries, and other tradespeople. Today, the U.S. Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) sets limits for acceptable levels of asbestos exposure in the workplace. People who work with asbestos wear personal protective equipment to lower their risk of exposure.
The risk of asbestos-related disease increases with heavier exposure to asbestos and longer exposure time. However, some individuals with only brief exposures have developed mesothelioma On the other hand, not all workers who are heavily exposed develop asbestos-related diseases.
There is some evidence that family members and others living with asbestos workers have an increased risk of developing mesothelioma, and possibly other asbestos-related diseases. This risk may be the result of exposure to
asbestos
dust brought home on the clothing and hair of
asbestos
workers. To reduce the chance of exposing family members to
asbestos
fibers, asbestos workers are usually required to shower and change their clothing before leaving the workplace.
What are the symptoms of mesothelioma?
Symptoms of mesothelioma may not appear until 30 to 50 years after exposure to
asbestos
Shortness of breath and pain in the chest due to an accumulation of fluid in the pleura are often symptoms of pleural mesothelioma. Symptoms of peritoneal mesothelioma include weight loss and abdominal pain and swelling due to a buildup of fluid in the abdomen. Other symptoms of peritoneal mesothelioma may include bowel obstruction blood clotting abnormalities, anemia, and fever. If the cancer has spread beyond the mesothelium to other parts of the body, symptoms may include pain, trouble swallowing, or swelling of the neck or face.
These symptoms may be caused by
mesothelioma
or by other, less serious conditions. It is important to see a doctor about any of these symptoms. Only a doctor can make a diagnosis
How is
mesothelioma
diagnosed?
Diagnosing mesothelioma is often difficult, because the symptoms are similar to those of a number of other conditions. Diagnosis begins with a review of the patient's medical history, including any history of asbestos exposure. A complete physical examination may be performed, including x-rays of the chest or abdomen and lung function tests. A CT (or CAT) scan or an MRI may also be useful. A CT scan is a series of detailed pictures of areas inside the body created by a computer linked to an x-ray machine. In an MRI, a powerful magnet linked to a computer is used to make detailed pictures of areas inside the body. These pictures are viewed on a monitor and can also be printed.
A biopsy is needed to confirm a diagnosis of mesothelioma. In a biopsy, a surgeon or a medical oncologist (a doctor who specializes in diagnosing and treating cancer) removes a sample of tissue for examination under a microscope by a pathologist. A biopsy may be done in different ways, depending on where the abnormal area is located. If the
cancer
is in the chest, the doctor may perform a thoracoscopy. In this procedure, the doctor makes a small cut through the chest wall and puts a thin, lighted tube called a thoracoscope into the chest between two ribs. Thoracoscopy allows the doctor to look inside the chest and obtain tissue samples. If the
cancer
is in the abdomen, the doctor may perform a peritoneoscopy. To obtain tissue for examination, the doctor makes a small opening in the abdomen and inserts a special instrument called a peritoneoscope into the abdominal cavity. If these procedures do not yield enough tissue, more extensive diagnostic surgery may be necessary.
If the diagnosis is mesothelioma, the doctor will want to learn the stage (or extent) of the disease. Staging involves more tests in a careful attempt to find out whether the cancer has spread and, if so, to which parts of the body. Knowing the stage of the disease helps the doctor plan treatment.
Mesothelioma
is described as localized if the cancer is found only on the membrane surface where it originated. It is classified as advanced if it has spread beyond the original membrane surface to other parts of the body, such as the lymph nodes, lungs, chest wall, or abdominal organs.
How is
mesothelioma
treated?
Treatment for mesothelioma depends on the location of the
cancer
the stage of the disease, and the patient's age and general health. Standard treatment options include surgery, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy. Sometimes, these treatments are combined.
Surgery is a common treatment for
mesothelioma
The doctor may remove part of the lining of the chest or abdomen and some of the tissue around it. For cancer of the pleura (pleural
mesothelioma
a lung may be removed in an operation called a pneumonectomy. Sometimes part of the diaphragm, the muscle below the lungs that helps with breathing, is also removed.
Stereo Tactic Radiation Therapy
also called radiotherapy, involves the use of high-energy rays to kill
cancer
cells and shrink tumors Radiation therapy affects the
cancer
cells only in the treated area. The radiation may come from a machine (external radiation) or from putting materials that produce radiation through thin plastic tubes into the area where the
cancer
cells are found (internal radiation therapy).
Chemotherapy
is the use of anticancer drugs to kill cancer cells throughout the body. Most drugs used to treat
mesothelioma
are given by injection into a vein (intravenous, or IV). Doctors are also studying the effectiveness of putting chemotherapy directly into the chest or abdomen (intracavitary chemotherapy).
To relieve symptoms and control pain, the doctor may use a needle or a thin tube to drain fluid that has built up in the chest or abdomen. The procedure for removing fluid from the chest is called thoracentesis. Removal of fluid from the abdomen is called paracentesis. Drugs may be given through a tube in the chest to prevent more fluid from accumulating. Radiation Therapy
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mesothelioma Mesotheliomais a form of cancer that is almost always caused by exposure to Asbestos In this disease, malignant cells develop in the mesothelium, a protective lining that covers most of the body's internal organs. Its most common site is the pleura (outer lining of the lungs and internal chest wall), but it may also occur in the peritoneum (the lining of the abdominal cavity), the heart the pericardium (a sac that surrounds the heart or tunica vaginalis.
Most people who develop
mesothelioma have worked on jobs where they inhaled asbestos particles, or they have been exposed to asbestos dust and fiber in other ways. Washing the clothes of a family member who worked with asbestos can also put a person at risk for developing Mesothelioma Unlike lung cancer, there is no association between mesothelioma and smoking but smoking greatly increases risk of other asbestos induced cancer.Compensation via
Asbestos funds or lawsuits is an important issue in
mesothelioma The symptoms of
mesothelioma include shortness of breath due to pleural effusion (fluid between the lung and the chest wall or chest wall pain, and general symptoms such as weight loss. The diagnosis may be suspected with chest X-ray and CT scan and is confirmed with a biopsy (tissue sample) and microscopic examination. A thoracoscopy inserting a tube with a camera into the chest) can be used to take biopsies. It allows the introduction of substances such as talc to obliterate the pleural space (called pleurodesis, which prevents more fluid from accumulating and pressing on the lung. Despite treatment with chemotherapy, radiation therapy or sometimes surgery, the disease carries a poor prognosis. Research about screening tests for the early detection of mesothelioma is ongoing.
Symptoms of mesothelioma may not appear until 20 to 50 years after exposure to asbestos. Shortness of breath, cough, and pain in the chest due to an accumulation of fluid in the pleural space are often symptoms of pleural
mesotheliomaSymptoms of peritoneal
mesothelioma include weight loss and cachexia, abdominal swelling and pain due to ascites (a buildup of fluid in the abdominal cavity). Other symptoms of peritoneal
mesothelioma may include bowel obstruction, blood clotting abnormalities, anemia, and fever. If the cancer has spread beyond the mesothelium to other parts of the body, symptoms may include pain, trouble swallowing, or swelling of the neck or face.
These symptoms may be caused by
mesothelioma or by other, less serious conditions.
Mesothelioma that affects the pleura can cause these signs and symptoms:
chest wall pain
pleural effusion, or fluid surrounding the lung
shortness of breath
fatigue or anemia
wheezing, hoarseness, or cough
blood in the sputum (fluid) coughed up hemoptysis
In severe cases, the person may have many tumor masses. The individual may develop a pneumothorax, or collapse of the lung The disease may metastasize, or spread, to other parts of the body.
Tumors that affect the abdominal cavity often do not cause symptoms until they are at a late stage. Symptoms include:
abdominal pain
ascites, or an abnormal buildup of fluid in the abdomen
a mass in the abdomen
problems with bowel function
weight loss
In severe cases of the disease, the following signs and symptoms may be present:
blood clots in the veins, which may cause thrombophlebitis
disseminated intravascular coagulation a disorder causing severe bleeding in many body organs
jaundice, or yellowing of the eyes and skin
low blood sugar level
pleural effusion
pulmonary emboli, or blood clots in the arteries of the lungs
severe ascites
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mesothelioma does not usually spread to the bone, brain, or adrenal glands. Pleural tumors are usually found only on one side of the lungs
Diagnosing
mesothelioma is often difficult, because the symptoms are similar to those of a number of other conditions. Diagnosis begins with a review of the patient's medical history. A history of exposure to asbestos may increase clinical suspicion for
mesothelioma A physical examination is performed, followed by chest X-ray and often lung function tests. The X-ray may reveal pleural thickening commonly seen after asbestos exposure and increases suspicion of
mesothelioma A CT (or CAT) scan or an MRI is usually performed. If a large amount of fluid is present, abnormal cells may be detected by cytology if this fluid is aspirated with a syringe. For pleural fluid this is done by a pleural tap or chest drain, in ascites with an paracentesis or ascitic drain and in a pericardial effusion with pericardiocentesis. While absence of malignant cells on cytology does not completely exclude
mesothelioma it makes it much more unlikely, especially if an alternative diagnosis can be made (e.g. tuberculosis, heart failure
If cytology is positive or a plaque is regarded as suspicious, a biopsy is needed to confirm a diagnosis of
mesothelioma A doctor removes a sample of tissue for examination under a microscope by a pathologist. A biopsy may be done in different ways, depending on where the abnormal area is located. If the cancer is in the chest, the doctor may perform a thoracoscopy. In this procedure, the doctor makes a small cut through the chest wall and puts a thin, lighted tube called a thoracoscope into the chest between two ribs. Thoracoscopy allows the doctor to look inside the chest and obtain tissue samples.
If the cancer is in the abdomen, the doctor may perform a laparoscopy. To obtain tissue for examination, the doctor makes a small incision in the abdomen and inserts a special instrument into the abdominal cavity. If these procedures do not yield enough tissue, more extensive diagnostic surgery may be necessary.
There is no universally agreed protocol for screening people who have been exposed to
asbestosScreening tests might diagnose mesothelioma earlier than conventional methods thus improving the survival prospects for patients. The serum osteopontin level might be useful in screening asbestos-exposed people for
mesotheliomaThe level of soluble mesothelin-related protein is elevated in the serum of about 75% of patients at diagnosis and it has been suggested that it may be useful for screening. Doctors have begun testing the Mesomark assay which measures levels of soluble mesothelin-related proteins (SMRPs) released by diseased mesothelioma cells
Incidence
Although reported incidence rates have increased in the past 20 years, mesothelioma is still a relatively rare cancer. The incidence rate is approximately one per 1,000,000. The highest incidence is found in Britain, Australia and Belgium: 30 per 1,000,000 per year. For comparison, populations with high levels of smoking can have a lung cancer incidence of over 1,000 per 1,000,000. Incidence of malignant mesothelioma currently ranges from about 7 to 40 per 1,000,000 in industrialized Western nations, depending on the amount of asbestos exposure of the populations during the past several decades. It has been estimated that incidence may have peaked at 15 per 1,000,000 in the United States in 2004. Incidence is expected to continue increasing in other parts of the world. Mesothelioma occurs more often in men than in women and risk increases with age, but this disease can appear in either men or women at any age. Approximately one fifth to one third of all mesotheliomas are peritoneal.
Between 1940 and 1979, approximately 27.5 million people were occupationally exposed to asbestos in the United States.[ Between 1973 and 1984, there has been a threefold increase in the diagnosis of pleural mesothelioma in Caucasian males. From 1980 to the late 1990s, the death rate from mesothelioma in the USA increased from 2,000 per year to 3,000, with men four times more likely to acquire it than women. These rates may not be accurate, since it is possible that many cases of mesothelioma are misdiagnosed as adenocarcinoma of the lung, which is difficult to differentiate from mesothelioma.
Working with asbestos is the major risk factor for mesothelioma. A history of asbestos exposure exists in almost all cases. However, mesothelioma has been reported in some individuals without any known exposure to asbestos. In rare cases, mesothelioma has also been associated with irradiation, intrapleural thorium dioxide (Thorotrast), and inhalation of other fibrous silicates, such as erionite.
asbestos
is the name of a group of minerals that occur naturally as masses of strong, flexible fibers that can be separated into thin threads and woven.
asbestos
has been widely used in many industrial products, including cement, brake linings, roof shingles, flooring products, textiles, and insulation. If tiny asbestos particles float in the air, especially during the manufacturing process, they may be inhaled or swallowed, and can cause serious health problems. In addition to mesothelioma, exposure to asbestos increases the risk of lung cancer, asbestosis (a noncancerous, chronic lung ailment), and other cancers, such as those of the larynx and kidney.
The combination of smoking and
asbestos exposure significantly increases a person's risk of developing cancer of the airways (lung cancer bronchial carcinoma). The Kent brand of cigarettes used
mesothelioma in its filters for the first few years of production in the 1950s and some cases of
mesothelioma have resulted. Smoking modern cigarettes does not appear to increase the risk of mesothelioma.
Some studies suggest that simian virus 40 may act as a cofactor in the development of mesothelioma.
Asbestos was known in antiquity, but it wasn't mined and widely used commercially until the late 1800s. Its use greatly increased during World War II Since the early 1940s, millions of American workers have been exposed to asbestos dust. Initially, the risks associated with
asbestos exposure were not publicly known. However, an increased risk of developing mesothelioma was later found among shipyard workers, people who work in asbestos mines and mills, producers of asbestos products, workers in the heating and construction industries, and other tradespeople. Today, the U.S. Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) sets limits for acceptable levels of
asbestos exposure in the workplace, and created guidelines for engineering controls and respirators, protective clothing, exposure monitoring, hygiene facilities and practices, warning signs, labeling, recordkeeping, and medical exams. By contrast, the British Government's Health and Safety Executive (HSE) states formally that any threshold for
mesothelioma must be at a very low level and it is widely agreed that if any such threshold does exist at all, then it cannot currently be quantified. For practical purposes, therefore, HSE does not assume that any such threshold exists. People who work with
asbestos wear personal protective equipment to lower their risk of exposure. Recent findings have shown that a mineral called erionite has been known to cause genetically pre-dispositioned individuals to have malignant mesothelioma rates much higher than those not pre-dispositioned genetically. A study in Cappadocia, Turkey has shown that 3 villiages in Turkey have death rates of 51% attributed to erionite related
mesotheliomaExposure to
asbestos fibres has been recognised as an occupational health hazard since the early 1900s. Several epidemiological studies have associated exposure to asbestos with the development of lesions such as asbestos bodies in the sputum, pleural plaques, diffuse pleural thickening, asbestosis, carcinoma of the lung and larynx, gastrointestinal tumours, and diffuse mesothelioma of the pleura and peritoneum.
The documented presence of
asbestos fibres in water supplies and food products has fostered concerns about the possible impact of long-term and, as yet, unknown exposure of the general population to these fibres. Although many authorities consider brief or transient exposure to
asbestos fibres as inconsequential and an unlikely risk factor, some epidemiologists claim that there is no risk threshold. Cases of mesothelioma have been found in people whose only exposure was breathing the air through ventilation systems. Other cases had very minimal (3 months or less) direct exposure.
Commercial
asbestos mining at Wittenoom, Western Australia, occurred between 1945 and 1966. A cohort study of miners employed at the mine reported that while no deaths occurred within the first 10 years after crocidolite exposure, 85 deaths attributable to mesothelioma had occurred by 1985. By 1994, 539 reported deaths due to mesothelioma had been reported in Western Australia.
Family members and others living with
asbestos workers have an increased risk of developing
mesothelioma and possibly other asbestos related diseases. This risk may be the result of exposure to
asbestos dust brought home on the clothing and hair of
asbestos workers. To reduce the chance of exposing family members to asbestosMany building materials used in both public and domestic premises prior to the banning of
asbestos may contain
asbestos Those performing renovation works or activities may expose themselves to asbestos dust. In the UK use of Chrysotile asbestos was banned at the end of 1999. Brown and blue
asbestos was banned in the UK around 1985. Buildings built or renovated prior to these dates may contain asbestos materials.
For patients with localized disease, and who can tolerate a radical surgery, radiation is often given post-operatively as a consolidative treatment. The entire hemi-thorax is treated with radiation therapy, often given simultaneously with chemotherapy. Delivering radiation and chemotherapy after a radical surgery has led to extended life expectancy in selected patient populations with some patients surviving more than 5 years. As part of a curative approach to
mesothelioma radiotherapy is also commonly applied to the sites of chest drain insertion, in order to prevent growth of the tumor along the track in the chest wall.
Although
mesothelioma is generally resistant to curative treatment with radiotherapy alone, palliative treatment regimens are sometimes used to relieve symptoms arising from tumor growth, such as obstruction of a major blood vessel.
Radiation Therapy when given alone with curative intent has never been shown to improve survival from
mesothelioma The necessary radiation dose to treat mesothelioma that has not been surgically removed would be very toxic.
Chemotherapy is the only treatment for
mesothelioma that has been proven to improve survival in randomised and controlled trials. The landmark study published in 2003 by Vogelzang and colleagues compared cisplatin chemotherapy alone with a combination of cisplatin and pemetrexed (brand name Alimta) chemotherapy) in patients who had not received chemotherapy for malignant pleural mesothelioma previously and were not candidates for more aggressive "curative" surgery. This trial was the first to report a survival advantage from chemotherapy in malignant pleural
mesothelioma showing a statistically significant improvement in median survival from 10 months in the patients treated with cisplatin alone to 13.3 months in the combination pemetrexed group in patients who received supplementation with folate and vitamin B12. Vitamin supplementation was given to most patients in the trial and pemetrexed related side effects were significantly less in patients receiving pemetrexed when they also received daily oral folate 500mcg and intramuscular vitamin B12 1000mcg every 9 weeks compared with patients receiving pemetrexed without vitamin supplementation. The objective response rate increased from 20% in the cisplatin group to 46% in the combination pemetrexed group. Some side effects such as nausea and vomiting, stomatitis, and diarrhoea were more common in the combination pemetrexed group but only affected a minority of patients and overall the combination of pemetrexed and cisplatin was well tolerated when patients received vitamin supplementation; both quality of life and lung function tests improved in the combination pemetrexed group. In February 2004, the United States Food and Drug Administration approved pemetrexed for treatment of malignant pleural mesothelioma. However, there are still unanswered questions about the optimal use of chemotherapy, including when to start treatment, and the optimal number of cycles to give.
Cisplatin in combination with raltitrexed has shown an improvement in survival similar to that reported for pemetrexed in combination with cisplatin, but raltitrexed is no longer commercially available for this indication. For patients unable to tolerate pemetrexed, cisplatin in combination with gemcitabine or vinorelbine is an alternative, although a survival benefit has not been shown for these drugs. For patients in whom cisplatin cannot be used, carboplatin can be substituted but non-randomised data have shown lower response rates and high rates of haematological toxicity for carboplatin-based combinations, albeit with similar survival figures to patients receiving cisplatin.
In January 2009, the United States FDA approved using conventional therapies such as surgery in combination with radiation and or chemotherapy on stage I or II Mesothelioma after research conducted by a nationwide study by Duke University concluded an almost 50 point increase in remission rates.
Treatment regimens involving immunotherapy have yielded variable results. For example, intrapleural inoculation of Bacillus Calmette-Guérin (BCG) in an attempt to boost the immune response, was found to be of no benefit to the patient (while it may benefit patients with bladder cancer.
mesothelioma cells proved susceptible to in vitro lysis by LAK cells following activation by interleukin-2 (IL-2), but patients undergoing this particular therapy experienced major side effects. Indeed, this trial was suspended in view of the unacceptably high levels of IL-2 toxicity and the severity of side effects such as fever and cachexia. Nonetheless, other trials involving interferon alpha have proved more encouraging with 20% of patients experiencing a greater than 50% reduction in tumor mass combined with minimal side effects.
A procedure known as heated intraoperative intraperitoneal chemotherapy was developed by at the Washington Cancer Institute. The surgeon removes as much of the tumor as possible followed by the direct administration of a chemotherapy agent, heated to between 40 and 48°C, in the abdomen. The fluid is perfused for 60 to 120 minutes and then drained.
This technique permits the administration of high concentrations of selected drugs into the abdominal and pelvic surfaces. Heating the chemotherapy treatment increases the penetration of the drugs into tissues. Also, heating itself damages the malignant cells more than the normal cells.
What is the mesothelium?
The mesothelium is a membrane that covers and protects most of the internal organs of the body. It is composed of two layers of cells: One layer immediately surrounds the organ; the other forms a sac around it. The mesothelium produces a lubricating fluid that is released between these layers, allowing moving organs (such as the beating heart and the expanding and contracting lungs to glide easily against adjacent structures.
The mesothelium has different names, depending on its location in the body. The peritoneum is the mesothelial tissue that covers most of the organs in the abdominal cavity. The pleura is the membrane that surrounds the lungs and lines the wall of the chest cavity. The pericardium covers and protects the heart. The
mesothelioma tissue surrounding the male internal reproductive organs is called the tunica vaginalis testis. The tunica serosa uteri covers the internal reproductive organs in women.
What is mesothelioma?
mesothelioma (cancer of the mesothelium) is a disease in which cells of the mesothelium become abnormal and divide without control or order. They can invade and damage nearby tissues and organs.
cancer cells can also metastasize (spread) from their original site to other parts of the body. Most cases of mesothelioma begin in the pleura or peritoneum.
How common is mesothelioma?
Although reported incidence rates have increased in the past 20 years, mesothelioma is still a relatively rare cancer. About 2,000 new cases of mesothelioma are diagnosed in the United States each year. Mesothelioma occurs more often in men than in women and risk increases with age, but this disease can appear in either men or women at any age.
What are the risk factors for mesothelioma?
Working with asbestos is the major risk factor for mesothelioma. A history of asbestos exposure at work is reported in about 70 percent to 80 percent of all cases. However, mesothelioma has been reported in some individuals without any known exposure to
Asbestos is the name of a group of minerals that occur naturally as masses of strong, flexible fibers that can be separated into thin threads and woven. asbestos has been widely used in many industrial products, including cement, brake linings, roof shingles, flooring products, textiles, and insulation. If tiny asbestos particles float in the air, especially during the manufacturing process, they may be inhaled or swallowed, and can cause serious health problems. In addition to mesothelioma, exposure to asbestos increases the risk of lung cancer, asbestosis (a noncancerous, chronic lung ailment), and other cancers, such as those of the larynx and kidney.
Smoking does not appear to increase the risk of mesothelioma. However, the combination of smoking and asbestos exposure significantly increases a person's risk of developing cancer of the air passageways in the lung.
Who is at increased risk for developing mesothelioma?
asbestos has been mined and used commercially since the late 1800s. Its use greatly increased during World War II. Since the early 1940s, millions of American workers have been exposed to asbestos dust. Initially, the risks associated with asbestos exposure were not known. However, an increased risk of developing mesothelioma was later found among shipyard workers, people who work in asbestos. Today, the U.S. Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) sets limits for acceptable levels of asbestos exposure in the workplace. People who work with asbestos wear personal protective equipment to lower their risk of exposure.
The risk o f asbestosrelated disease increases with heavier exposure to asbestos and longer exposure time. However, some individuals with only brief exposures have developed mesothelioma On the other hand, not all workers who are heavily exposed develop asbestos-related diseases.
There is some evidence that family members and others living with asbestos workers have an increased risk of developing mesothelioma, and possibly other asbestos-related diseases. This risk may be the result of exposure to
asbestos dust brought home on the clothing and hair of
asbestos workers. To reduce the chance of exposing family members to
asbestos fibers, asbestos workers are usually required to shower and change their clothing before leaving the workplace.
What are the symptoms of mesothelioma?
Symptoms of mesothelioma may not appear until 30 to 50 years after exposure to
asbestos Shortness of breath and pain in the chest due to an accumulation of fluid in the pleura are often symptoms of pleural mesothelioma. Symptoms of peritoneal mesothelioma include weight loss and abdominal pain and swelling due to a buildup of fluid in the abdomen. Other symptoms of peritoneal mesothelioma may include bowel obstruction blood clotting abnormalities, anemia, and fever. If the cancer has spread beyond the mesothelium to other parts of the body, symptoms may include pain, trouble swallowing, or swelling of the neck or face.
These symptoms may be caused by
mesothelioma or by other, less serious conditions. It is important to see a doctor about any of these symptoms. Only a doctor can make a diagnosis
How is
mesotheliomadiagnosed?
Diagnosing mesothelioma is often difficult, because the symptoms are similar to those of a number of other conditions. Diagnosis begins with a review of the patient's medical history, including any history of asbestos exposure. A complete physical examination may be performed, including x-rays of the chest or abdomen and lung function tests. A CT (or CAT) scan or an MRI may also be useful. A CT scan is a series of detailed pictures of areas inside the body created by a computer linked to an x-ray machine. In an MRI, a powerful magnet linked to a computer is used to make detailed pictures of areas inside the body. These pictures are viewed on a monitor and can also be printed.
A biopsy is needed to confirm a diagnosis of mesothelioma. In a biopsy, a surgeon or a medical oncologist (a doctor who specializes in diagnosing and treating cancer) removes a sample of tissue for examination under a microscope by a pathologist. A biopsy may be done in different ways, depending on where the abnormal area is located. If the
cancer is in the chest, the doctor may perform a thoracoscopy. In this procedure, the doctor makes a small cut through the chest wall and puts a thin, lighted tube called a thoracoscope into the chest between two ribs. Thoracoscopy allows the doctor to look inside the chest and obtain tissue samples. If the
cancer is in the abdomen, the doctor may perform a peritoneoscopy. To obtain tissue for examination, the doctor makes a small opening in the abdomen and inserts a special instrument called a peritoneoscope into the abdominal cavity. If these procedures do not yield enough tissue, more extensive diagnostic surgery may be necessary.
If the diagnosis is mesothelioma, the doctor will want to learn the stage (or extent) of the disease. Staging involves more tests in a careful attempt to find out whether the cancer has spread and, if so, to which parts of the body. Knowing the stage of the disease helps the doctor plan treatment.
Mesothelioma is described as localized if the cancer is found only on the membrane surface where it originated. It is classified as advanced if it has spread beyond the original membrane surface to other parts of the body, such as the lymph nodes, lungs, chest wall, or abdominal organs.
How is
mesotheliomatreated?
Treatment for mesothelioma depends on the location of the
cancerthe stage of the disease, and the patient's age and general health. Standard treatment options include surgery, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy. Sometimes, these treatments are combined.
Surgery is a common treatment for
mesotheliomaThe doctor may remove part of the lining of the chest or abdomen and some of the tissue around it. For cancer of the pleura (pleural
mesotheliomaa lung may be removed in an operation called a pneumonectomy. Sometimes part of the diaphragm, the muscle below the lungs that helps with breathing, is also removed.
Stereo Tactic Radiation Therapy also called radiotherapy, involves the use of high-energy rays to kill
cancercells and shrink tumors Radiation therapy affects the
cancercells only in the treated area. The radiation may come from a machine (external radiation) or from putting materials that produce radiation through thin plastic tubes into the area where the
cancercells are found (internal radiation therapy).
Chemotherapy is the use of anticancer drugs to kill cancer cells throughout the body. Most drugs used to treat
mesotheliomaare given by injection into a vein (intravenous, or IV). Doctors are also studying the effectiveness of putting chemotherapy directly into the chest or abdomen (intracavitary chemotherapy).
To relieve symptoms and control pain, the doctor may use a needle or a thin tube to drain fluid that has built up in the chest or abdomen. The procedure for removing fluid from the chest is called thoracentesis. Removal of fluid from the abdomen is called paracentesis. Drugs may be given through a tube in the chest to prevent more fluid from accumulating. Radiation Therapy and surgery may also be helpful in relieving symptoms.By , at 2:59 AM
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Any risk that can be quantified can potentially be insured. Specific kinds of risk that may give rise to claims are known as "perils". An insurance policy will set out in detail which perils are covered by the policy and which are not. Below are (non-exhaustive) lists of the many different types of insurance that exist. A single policy may cover risks in one or more of the categories set out below. For example, auto insurance would typically cover both property risk (covering the risk of theft or damage to the car) and liability risk (covering legal claims from causing an accident). A homeowners insurance policy in the U.S. typically includes property insurance covering damage to the home and the owner's belongings, liability insurance covering certain legal claims against the owner, and even a small amount of coverage for medical expenses of guests who are injured on the owner's property.
Business insurance can be any kind of insurance that protects businesses against risks. Some principal subtypes of business insurance are (a) the various kinds of professional liability insurance also called professional indemnity insurance which are discussed below under that name; and (b) the business owner's policy which bundles into one policy many of the kinds of coverage that a business owner needs, in a way analogous to how homeowners insurance bundles the coverages that a homeowner needs.
Vehicle insuranceAuto insurance protects you against financial loss if you have an accident. It is a contract between you and the insurance company. You agree to pay the premium and the insurance company agrees to pay your losses as defined in your policy. Auto insurance provides property, liability and medical coverage:
Property coverage pays for damage to or theft of your car.
Liability coverage pays for your legal responsibility to others for bodily injury or property damage.
Medical coverage pays for the cost of treating injuries, rehabilitation and sometimes lost wages and funeral expenses.
An iauto nsurance policy is comprised of six different kinds of coverage. Most countries require you to buy some, but not all, of these coverages. If you're financing a car, your lender may also have requirements. Most auto policies are for six months to a year.
In the United States, your insurance company should notify you by mail when it’s time to renew the policy and to pay your premium.
Home insuranceHome insurance provides compensation for damage or destruction of a home from disasters. In some geographical areas, the standard insurance excludes certain types of disasters, such as flood and earthquakes, that require additional coverage. Maintenance-related problems are the homeowners' responsibility. The policy may include inventory, or this can be bought as a separate policy, especially for people who rent housing. In some countries, insurers offer a package which may include liability and legal responsibility for injuries and property damage caused by members of the household, including pets.
Health insurance and Dental iinsurance
Health insurance policies by the National Health Service in the United Kingdom or other publicly-funded health programs will cover the cost of medical treatments. Dental insurance like medical insurance is coverage for individuals to protect them against dental costs. In the U.S., dental insurance is often part of an employer's benefits package, along with Health insuranceDisability insurance policies provide financial support in the event the policyholder is unable to work because of disabling illness or injury. It provides monthly support to help pay such obligations as mortgages and credit cards.
Disability overhead insurance allows business owners to cover the overhead expenses of their business while they are unable to work.
Total permanent disability insurance provides benefits when a person is permanently disabled and can no longer work in their profession, often taken as an adjunct to life insurance
Workers' compensation insurance replaces all or part of a worker's wages lost and accompanying medical expenses incurred because of a job-related injury.
Casualty insurance insures against accidents, not necessarily tied to any specific property.
Casualty insuranceCrime insurance is a form of casualty insurance that covers the policyholder against losses arising from the criminal acts of third parties. For example, a company can obtain crime insurance to cover losses arising from theft or embezzlement.
Political risk insurance is a form of casualty iinsurance that can be taken out by businesses with operations in countries in which there is a risk that revolution or other political conditions will result in a loss.
Life insuranceLife insurance provides a monetary benefit to a decedent's family or other designated beneficiary, and may specifically provide for income to an insured person's family, burial funeral and other final expenses. Life insurance policies often allow the option of having the proceeds paid to the beneficiary either in a lump sum cash payment or an annuity.
Annuities provide a stream of payments and are generally classified as insurance because they are issued by insurance companies and regulated as insurance and require the same kinds of actuarial and investment management expertise that life insurance requires. Annuities and pensions that pay a benefit for life are sometimes regarded as insurance against the possibility that a retiree will outlive his or her financial resources. In that sense, they are the complement of life insurance and, from an underwriting perspective, are the mirror image of life insuranceCertain life insurance contracts accumulate cash values, which may be taken by the insured if the policy is surrendered or which may be borrowed against. Some policies, such as annuities and endowment policies are financial instruments to accumulate or liquidate wealth when it is needed.
In many countries, such as the U.S. and the UK, the tax law provides that the interest on this cash value is not taxable under certain circumstances. This leads to widespread use of life insurance as a tax-efficient method of saving as well as protection in the event of early death.
In U.S., the tax on interest income on life insurance policies and annuities is generally deferred. However, in some cases the benefit derived from tax deferral may be offset by a low return. This depends upon the insuring company, the type of policy and other variables (mortality, market return, etc.). Moreover, other income tax saving vehicles may be better alternatives for value accumulation. A combination of low-cost term life insurance and a higher-return tax-efficient retirement account may achieve better investment return.
Property insurance
Property insurance provides protection against risks to property, such as fire, theft or weather damage. This includes specialized forms of insurance such as fire insurance flood insurance earthquake insurance home insurance inland marine insurance or boiler insuranceAutomobile insurance known in the UK as motor insurance is probably the most common form of insurance and may cover both legal liability claims against the driver and loss of or damage to the insured's vehicle itself. Throughout the United States an auto insurance policy is required to legally operate a motor vehicle on public roads. In some jurisdictions, bodily injury compensation for automobile accident victims has been changed to a no-fault system, which reduces or eliminates the ability to sue for compensation but provides automatic eligibility for benefits. Credit card companies insure against damage on rented cars.
Driving School insurance provides cover for any authorized driver whilst undergoing tuition, cover also unlike other motor policies provides cover for instructor liability where both the pupil and driving instructor are equally liable in the event of a claim.
Aviation insurance insures against hull, spares, deductibles, hull wear and liability risks.
Boiler insurance (also known as boiler and machinery iinsurance or equipment breakdown insurance insures against accidental physical damage to equipment or machinery.
Builder's risk insurance insures against the risk of physical loss or damage to property during construction. Builder's risk insurance is typically written on an "all risk" basis covering damage due to any cause (including the negligence of the insured) not otherwise expressly excluded.
Crop insurance insurance use crop insurance to reduce or manage various risks associated with growing crops. Such risks include crop loss or damage caused by weather, hail, drought, frost damage, insects, or disease, for instance."
Earthquake insurance is a form of property insurance that pays the policyholder in the event of an earthquake that causes damage to the property. Most ordinary homeowners insurance policies do not cover earthquake damage. Most earthquake insurance policies feature a high deductible. Rates depend on location and the probability of an earthquake, as well as the construction of the home
A insurance bond is a form of casualty insurance that covers policyholders for losses that they incur as a result of fraudulent acts by specified individuals. It usually insures a business for losses caused by the dishonest acts of its employees.
Flood insurance protects against property loss due to flooding. Many insurers in the U.S. do not provide flood insurance in some portions of the country. In response to this, the federal government created the National Flood insurance Program which serves as the insurer of last resort.
Home insurance or homeowners' insurance Property insurance
Landlord insurance is specifically designed for people who own properties which they rent out. Most house insurance cover in the U.K will not be valid if the property is rented out therefore landlords must take out this specialist form of home insurance
Marine insurance and marine cargo insurance cover the loss or damage of ships at sea or on inland waterways, and of the cargo that may be on them. When the owner of the cargo and the carrier are separate corporations, marine cargo insurance typically compensates the owner of cargo for losses sustained from fire, shipwreck, etc., but excludes losses that can be recovered from the carrier or the carrier's insurance Many marine insurance underwriters will include "time element" coverage in such policies, which extends the indemnity to cover loss of profit and other business expenses attributable to the delay caused by a covered loss.
Surety bond insurance is a three party insurance guaranteeing the performance of the principal.
Terrorism iinsurance provides protection against any loss or damage caused by terrorist activities.
Volcano insurance is an insurance that covers volcano damage in Hawaii.
Windstorm insurance is an insurance covering the damage that can be caused by hurricanes and tropical cyclones.
Liability insuranceLiability insurance is a very broad superset that covers legal claims against the insured. Many types of insurance include an aspect of liability coverage. For example, a homeowner's insurance policy will normally include liability coverage which protects the insured in the event of a claim brought by someone who slips and falls on the property; automobile insurance also includes an aspect of liability insurance that indemnifies against the harm that a crashing car can cause to others' lives, health, or property. The protection offered by a liability insurance policy is twofold: a legal defense in the event of a lawsuit commenced against the policyholder and indemnification (payment on behalf of the insured) with respect to a settlement or court verdict. Liability policies typically cover only the negligence of the insured, and will not apply to results of wilful or intentional acts by the insured.
Directors and officers liability insurance protects an organization (usually a corporation) from costs associated with litigation resulting from mistakes made by directors and officers for which they are liable. In the industry, it is usually called for short.
Environmental liability insurance protects the insured from bodily injury, property damage and cleanup costs as a result of the dispersal, release or escape of pollutants.
Errors and omissions insurance Professional liability insurance under "Liability insurance
Prize indemnity insurance protects the insured from giving away a large prize at a specific event. Examples would include offering prizes to contestants who can make a half-court shot at a basketball game, or a hole-in-one at a golf tournament.
Professional liability insurance also called professional indemnity insurance protects insured professionals such as architectural corporation and medical practice against potential negligence claims made by their patients/clients. Professional liability insurance may take on different names depending on the profession. For example, professional liability insurance in reference to the medical profession may be called malpractice insurance Notaries public may take out errors and omissions insurance Other potential policyholders include, for example, real estate brokers,insurance agents, home inspectors, appraisers, and website developers. Any risk that can be quantified can potentially be insured. Specific kinds of risk that may give rise to claims are known as "perils". An insurance policy will set out in detail which perils are covered by the policy and which are not. Below are (non-exhaustive) lists of the many different types of insurance that exist. A single policy may cover risks in one or more of the categories set out below. For example, auto insurance would typically cover both property risk (covering the risk of theft or damage to the car) and liability risk (covering legal claims from causing an accident). A homeowners insurance policy in the U.S. typically includes property insurance covering damage to the home and the owner's belongings, liability insurance covering certain legal claims against the owner, and even a small amount of coverage for medical expenses of guests who are injured on the owner's property.
Business insurance can be any kind of insurance that protects businesses against risks. Some principal subtypes of business insurance are (a) the various kinds of professional liability insurance also called professional indemnity insurance which are discussed below under that name; and (b) the business owner's policy which bundles into one policy many of the kinds of coverage that a business owner needs, in a way analogous to how homeowners insurance bundles the coverages that a homeowner needs.
Vehicle insuranceAuto insurance protects you against financial loss if you have an accident. It is a contract between you and the insurance company. You agree to pay the premium and the insurance company agrees to pay your losses as defined in your policy. Auto insurance provides property, liability and medical coverage:
Property coverage pays for damage to or theft of your car.
Liability coverage pays for your legal responsibility to others for bodily injury or property damage.
Medical coverage pays for the cost of treating injuries, rehabilitation and sometimes lost wages and funeral expenses.
An iauto nsurance policy is comprised of six different kinds of coverage. Most countries require you to buy some, but not all, of these coverages. If you're financing a car, your lender may also have requirements. Most auto policies are for six months to a year.
In the United States, your insurance company should notify you by mail when it’s time to renew the policy and to pay your premium.
Home insuranceHome insurance provides compensation for damage or destruction of a home from disasters. In some geographical areas, the standard insurance excludes certain types of disasters, such as flood and earthquakes, that require additional coverage. Maintenance-related problems are the homeowners' responsibility. The policy may include inventory, or this can be bought as a separate policy, especially for people who rent housing. In some countries, insurers offer a package which may include liability and legal responsibility for injuries and property damage caused by members of the household, including pets.
Health insurance and Dental iinsurance
Health insurance policies by the National Health Service in the United Kingdom or other publicly-funded health programs will cover the cost of medical treatments. Dental insurance like medical insurance is coverage for individuals to protect them against dental costs. In the U.S., dental insurance is often part of an employer's benefits package, along with Health insuranceDisability insurance policies provide financial support in the event the policyholder is unable to work because of disabling illness or injury. It provides monthly support to help pay such obligations as mortgages and credit cards.
Disability overhead insurance allows business owners to cover the overhead expenses of their business while they are unable to work.
Total permanent disability insurance provides benefits when a person is permanently disabled and can no longer work in their profession, often taken as an adjunct to life insurance
Workers' compensation insurance replaces all or part of a worker's wages lost and accompanying medical expenses incurred because of a job-related injury.
Casualty insurance insures against accidents, not necessarily tied to any specific property.
Casualty insuranceCrime insurance is a form of casualty insurance that covers the policyholder against losses arising from the criminal acts of third parties. For example, a company can obtain crime insurance to cover losses arising from theft or embezzlement.
Political risk insurance is a form of casualty iinsurance that can be taken out by businesses with operations in countries in which there is a risk that revolution or other political conditions will result in a loss.
Life insuranceLife insurance provides a monetary benefit to a decedent's family or other designated beneficiary, and may specifically provide for income to an insured person's family, burial funeral and other final expenses. Life insurance policies often allow the option of having the proceeds paid to the beneficiary either in a lump sum cash payment or an annuity.
Annuities provide a stream of payments and are generally classified as insurance because they are issued by insurance companies and regulated as insurance and require the same kinds of actuarial and investment management expertise that life insurance requires. Annuities and pensions that pay a benefit for life are sometimes regarded as insurance against the possibility that a retiree will outlive his or her financial resources. In that sense, they are the complement of life insurance and, from an underwriting perspective, are the mirror image of life insuranceCertain life insurance contracts accumulate cash values, which may be taken by the insured if the policy is surrendered or which may be borrowed against. Some policies, such as annuities and endowment policies are financial instruments to accumulate or liquidate wealth when it is needed.
In many countries, such as the U.S. and the UK, the tax law provides that the interest on this cash value is not taxable under certain circumstances. This leads to widespread use of life insurance as a tax-efficient method of saving as well as protection in the event of early death.
In U.S., the tax on interest income on life insurance policies and annuities is generally deferred. However, in some cases the benefit derived from tax deferral may be offset by a low return. This depends upon the insuring company, the type of policy and other variables (mortality, market return, etc.). Moreover, other income tax saving vehicles may be better alternatives for value accumulation. A combination of low-cost term life insurance and a higher-return tax-efficient retirement account may achieve better investment return.
Property insurance
Property insurance provides protection against risks to property, such as fire, theft or weather damage. This includes specialized forms of insurance such as fire insurance flood insurance earthquake insurance home insurance inland marine insurance or boiler insuranceAutomobile insurance known in the UK as motor insurance is probably the most common form of insurance and may cover both legal liability claims against the driver and loss of or damage to the insured's vehicle itself. Throughout the United States an auto insurance policy is required to legally operate a motor vehicle on public roads. In some jurisdictions, bodily injury compensation for automobile accident victims has been changed to a no-fault system, which reduces or eliminates the ability to sue for compensation but provides automatic eligibility for benefits. Credit card companies insure against damage on rented cars.
Driving School insurance provides cover for any authorized driver whilst undergoing tuition, cover also unlike other motor policies provides cover for instructor liability where both the pupil and driving instructor are equally liable in the event of a claim.
Aviation insurance insures against hull, spares, deductibles, hull wear and liability risks.
Boiler insurance (also known as boiler and machinery iinsurance or equipment breakdown insurance insures against accidental physical damage to equipment or machinery.
Builder's risk insurance insures against the risk of physical loss or damage to property during construction. Builder's risk insurance is typically written on an "all risk" basis covering damage due to any cause (including the negligence of the insured) not otherwise expressly excluded.
Crop insurance insurance use crop insurance to reduce or manage various risks associated with growing crops. Such risks include crop loss or damage caused by weather, hail, drought, frost damage, insects, or disease, for instance."
Earthquake insurance is a form of property insurance that pays the policyholder in the event of an earthquake that causes damage to the property. Most ordinary homeowners insurance policies do not cover earthquake damage. Most earthquake insurance policies feature a high deductible. Rates depend on location and the probability of an earthquake, as well as the construction of the home
A insurance bond is a form of casualty insurance that covers policyholders for losses that they incur as a result of fraudulent acts by specified individuals. It usually insures a business for losses caused by the dishonest acts of its employees.
Flood insurance protects against property loss due to flooding. Many insurers in the U.S. do not provide flood insurance in some portions of the country. In response to this, the federal government created the National Flood insurance Program which serves as the insurer of last resort.
Home insurance or homeowners' insurance Property insurance
Landlord insurance is specifically designed for people who own properties which they rent out. Most house insurance cover in the U.K will not be valid if the property is rented out therefore landlords must take out this specialist form of home insurance
Marine insurance and marine cargo insurance cover the loss or damage of ships at sea or on inland waterways, and of the cargo that may be on them. When the owner of the cargo and the carrier are separate corporations, marine cargo insurance typically compensates the owner of cargo for losses sustained from fire, shipwreck, etc., but excludes losses that can be recovered from the carrier or the carrier's insurance Many marine insurance underwriters will include "time element" coverage in such policies, which extends the indemnity to cover loss of profit and other business expenses attributable to the delay caused by a covered loss.
Surety bond insurance is a three party insurance guaranteeing the performance of the principal.
Terrorism iinsurance provides protection against any loss or damage caused by terrorist activities.
Volcano insurance is an insurance that covers volcano damage in Hawaii.
Windstorm insurance is an insurance covering the damage that can be caused by hurricanes and tropical cyclones.
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8 Comments:
LaTonya here. I really felt bad when I read that letter re: Carla's article. In fact, I shrieked, "Oh, no!" right there in my office. I do that a lot, though, so no one was really alarmed. Then I was reminded why I've taken to calling myself a Christ-follower instead of a Christian.
On the way home from church, I listen to NPR's Wait, Wait, Don't Tell Me and answer all the questions. Sometimes I bask in whatever's starting to happen in my small group.
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LaTonya, at 11:01 AM
Solomon's Porch Holisitic Missional Christian Community Dream #289:
"We dream of a church where no one will listen to KTIS. Ever."
By
tony, at 11:29 AM
Tony,
I'm a junkie. I really can't stop going back for an occasional hit.
By
Jenell, at 12:09 PM
I haven't seen the B&C letter yet, but I did get an e-mail from another friend of mine who'd seen it. Apparently it also calls me "angry and unhappy." So there you go. carla
By
Anonymous, at 2:47 PM
I haven't seen the other letter, but someone recently sent me this article: www.ladiesagainstfeminism.com/artman/publish/article_1745.shtml
It references Carla with impressive condescension. Don't know if you've already seen this or not.
The article made me yell at my computer. Then I yelled at the woman who sent it to me.
By
Anonymous, at 4:50 PM
I listen to Riverwalk Jazz on PRI,though I could go to it technically because I love in San Antonio. We go to out to lunch, ten hope the baby goes down for a nap. hope you are feeling well.
By
erica, at 5:11 PM
1. Saying that Carla is an angry and joyless mother is the closest thing I've had to a hysterical laughter breakdown one could have. Saying that Carla knows how to weild her mighty anger toward her husband with the goal of future world domination is another.
2. We could stand a little reshuffling around here of priorities. a. carla starts day with prayer. b. carla serves Jimmy. c. rest of day continues on.
3. Finally someone is waking up to the hell I live everyday. (while you're laughing, Carla gave me these words).
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Jimmy, at 5:51 PM
It's a good five minute drive from home to church- hardly enough time for the tubes to warm up. I'm kinda' tired of our local CCM stations anyway- lately I've been worshipping to Jimmy Buffet and Johnny Cash, with a little Elton John thrown in from time to time.
Any Christian that is never frustrated, at the end of her rope, or sad, because she follows the Bible, either missed the message or is in extreme denial (probably both).
By
Ben, at 9:47 AM
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