Friday, June 17, 2005
I'm not going to use this blog for baby stuff, but we did start the "Wesley and Oliver" blog, over at www.parisbabies.blogspot.com. Probably of interest only to family and friends, it is, in fact, a blog designed for family and friends! All are free to visit, of course. We'll let you know what's happening in the next weeks, especially, as the twins prepare to come home.
The Paris Project will lie fallow for a season, at least until I get some sleep.
Thursday, June 16, 2005
Oliver Williams and Wesley James came to be with us on Monday morning, June 16, at 9:45 and 9:56 respectively. Oliver weighed in at 5 lb. 12 oz., and Wesley at 6 lb. 15 oz. Mother was shocked to realize she was hauling around 13 pounds of humanity these last few weeks! Mother's daily refrain is, "It's so great to not be pregnant anymore!"
The boys are staying in the special care nursery at Abbott for awhile, until they're ready to come home. It will be a week, maybe two. We go there to feed them and be with them and take videos of them, and then come home in the evening and watch videos of them. There's a great one in which Wesley breathes for awhile, and then one where Oliver opens his eyes, and then one where Wesley moves his arm...all the things that a parent can watch over and over and never get bored.
Thank you to all who have prayed, grieved, hoped, and rejoiced with us. We are grateful to hold Ian, Simon, and Gordon in our hearts, and Wesley and Oliver in our arms.
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Oh how gorgeous! So glad to have these pictures! Calloo callay!
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What beautiful boys! And so gigantic! And what strong mama! Blessings abundantly sent your way!
Exclamatorily yours,
Jennifer -
Jenell, what a blessing. So happy for you & James. Yay!
Much love,
Tom W.By , at 12:07 AM
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Congratulations!
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yay!!!!! so, so happy for you!
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The boys are beautiful. How amazing!! Our hearts are with you as you anxiously await bringing them home. We so clearly remember our days spent at the hospital watching our sweet boy and marveling at the miracle that he is. Congratulations!!! We pray they come home soon!
love, kirsten, robert,and samuelBy Kirsten and Robert, at 9:32 AM
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(borrowing from Stevie Wonder:) "Isn't he (Oliver) lovely/ Isn't he (Wesley) wonderful/ Aren't they precious/ Only a few days old!"
I'm so happy for your family!
Best,
LaTonya -
Congratulations to you and your husband. Your sons are beautiful. Peace and blessing to you...
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Many congratulations! 13 pounds of humanity indeed - those boys look so beautifully pink, healthy and big! I'm so happy for all of you.
-Kim VBBy , at 3:04 PM
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Congratulations! I am thrilled for you and your family!
By , at 10:32 PM
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congratulations to you and many blessings!
i have enjoyed your blog -- i found it through jennifer.
peace, Sue -
Oh its so great that the babies made it fine. See the Lord does answer prayers.
By Monastic Skete, at 9:31 PM
Saturday, June 11, 2005
J: What's happening with you these days?
Blog: Very little. I'm rarely updated, and posts lack focus or any kind of theme over time. If you're going to write about books, then do so. If your blog is for personal updates, then say so (but I'd rather you not head this direction). If you want to write about ideas, then you might want to wait until your brain works and you actually have an interesting idea or two.
J: Shall I refrain from updating you?
Blog: Well, I'd prefer to be silent than to have trifling words put in my mouth.
J: Do all blogs have bad attitudes?
Blog: You need me; I don't need you.
J: How about this - I stop blogging until after my babies are born, but I will read other blogs and comment when I feel like it.
Blog: Sounds like a decent compromise.
J: Can I mention just one personal thing?
Blog: If you must.
J: In my final stretch of pregnancy, I've developed a fantastic set of cankles.
Blog: Do you really think anyone cares?
J: Yes, I really, really believe they do.
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They do care about cankles! They do!
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i second hugo. please tell your blog to stop oppressing you with too much analysis over content. my blog does the same thing and it makes me want to slap her silly.
and. i too had a great pair of cankles when i was pregnant with madeleine! they were so bad, i had to go to the store to buy practical sturdy mom like shoes to support them IN MIAMI where everyone around me was dithering over which darling stilleto was best.
it was a humble moment!
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Can I put in a plug for personal updates? I have few other ways to keep up with the Paris family :).
I am thinking of you in this home stretch and can't wait for the boys to arrive. -
Can I put in a plug for personal updates? I have few other ways to keep up with the Paris family :).
I am thinking of you in this home stretch and can't wait for the boys to arrive. -
YAY for Cankles and YAY for the newborn baby Paris Twins!! I'm so happy for you both!
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Congratulations!!!
:-) :o) :-)By Chicken Pax, at 10:47 AM
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Help! I'm out of the loop! Twins were born? Details, please???
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From a Prof. at Bethel:
"Oliver Williams Paris (5 lbs. 12 oz.) and Wesley James Paris (6 lbs 13 oz) arrived around 9:45 a.m. this morning (Monday, 6/13), and mom, the twins, and dad all seem to be doing fine."
-Jenell, so many congrats! The emails have been buzzing with the news! So many well wishes for you and yours. Congratulation! -
Oh, hooray! Congratulations all!!!
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Oh, praise God! I am so so so happy. It's amazing how much I wanted this for folks I've never met! Blessings to Jenell and James and Oliver and Wesley!
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I saw mom and the babies yesterday, Jenell is fantastic and Oliver and Wesley are precious, healthy, and beautiful!
cwBy , at 12:35 PM
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Congratulations!!!! We are thrilled for the four of you. Can't wait to meet you Oliver and Wesley.
love, Kirsten, Robert, and SamuelBy Kirsten and Robert, at 1:25 PM
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Praise God! and Hoooooray!
-LaTonya
Friday, June 03, 2005
Katie brought me Post-Rapture Radio this morning, and then I read it for four or five hours, and now it’s done. I’m not much of a food glutton, but I devour books and then feel sort of stuffed. Russell Rathbun (from House of Mercy in St. Paul) is the author – I actually thought it was the other male pastor from House of Mercy, but apparently I’ve forgotten his name. The book is worth a read.
The book is sort of like A New Kind of Christian – the author using a fictional character to express and explore his own views. I’d prefer to hear directly about the author in more of a memoir genre, but that’s just my preference. Rathbun points out on one of the first pages that the main character will not be attending the emergent:SEE gathering, and that he feels he “can no longer emerge.” That seemed like some kind of strange inside comment that I didn’t really understand.
I think I was confused by parts of his theology, but the main message is clear. The Gospel is not about you creating an individual salvation pod for yourself, to keep yourself safe in the future. Many announcements of Good News in the Bible are not about you at all; rather, they are about what God is doing. You are invited to participate. He refers to what I’ve understood as a paradigmatic statement of Jesus – the restatement from Isaiah about setting captives free, letting the blind see, and bringing peace to everyone. Stop being so selfish and squinty-eyed about who God is and what life means. Open your eyes, and contribute to the spread of the Good News. I've heard this message preached at House of Mercy, and it's a wonderful way of retelling the 'old old story' in language and with metaphors that fit their context.
I’m left with a few questions –
1. I really don’t know whether or not this is the same understanding of the Gospel as held by most in emergent. I do think, however, that Rathbun is restating the Gospel as Jesus said it, and as the prophets said before him. This message is clear even within contemporary evangelicalism – it is a minority view, spoken and shouted by prophets. I just don’t have the expectation that the mainstream ever gets it right, even if we replace the old mainstream with a new one. I don’t think very many people really want to live the Gospel, whether it is voiced by older 20th c. prophets (Sider, Campolo, etc.) or new postmodern folks. Has the Gospel ever been accepted by the masses? Seems to me it is always present in every era, and always clouded by a different veneer of bullshit.
2. I almost always feel confused by theology. If you tell me something about culture or research methods or something I’m expert in, I can extrapolate out meanings far beyond what you actually said (understanding the implications of what’s said, not just the literal meaning). Theologians seem to do this a lot, but I’m generally unable to get it. I sense that these new ways of thinking of things like hell, mercy, and judgment (not so much the Gospel itself) are threatening to people for two reasons – they may upset existing power balances, but they may also have implications for theology that are significant. I wish those two reasons for disagreement could be kept separate, but of course they’re almost always enmeshed. I also am challenged to think and read about theology – these new ways of thinking are pushed forward by pastors and “leaders”, but there is a strongly democratic strain in which we are all encouraged to participate as thinkers and co-creators.
P.S. What does it mean that Katie gave me a book full of Jesus and love, and Carla gave me a book full of adultery and sex (The Wife)? I must say that I thoroughly enjoyed them both.
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The Wife was really good. A great cover!
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Maybe its more a statement about me than Carla?
By The Husband, at 7:53 AM
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And, I think you hit it right on the nose in #1. Can anyone follow the gospel? Does anyone want to? It does not appear to be a life one would want to follow, on the surface of things, if we 'count the cost.' It might interfere with my kitchen remodel or my inclination to dispense with those I don't need. . . .
That said, no matter what new spin anyone puts on the 'gospel' whether they be emergent or evangelicals, nothing said will hold any value outside of a visible communal life that somehow reflects this radical gospel vision. -
I work at trying to build up God's Kingdom on earth. I do this by testifying of Christ by trying to live like he did (with faith charity which encompasses love, honesty, compassion, etc). But I also believe that in the big picture God sees each of us individually. I believe that he knows what each of us feels and needs. I believe that he will talk to us through feelings and impressions in prayer. Well, thanks for your book review. It helped me explore my own views and beliefs.
Wednesday, June 01, 2005
I don’t think my “problem” is that I don’t know how to get pens, I think it’s that I just don’t care. I have a chronic wrist problem that prevents me from writing more than a paragraph at a time, anyway, and besides, does anyone really do serious writing with a pen? I type nearly everything. I even write student comments for papers on the computer rather than hand-write on essays.
I love ideas, and relationships with students. That’s what’s great about being a professor. The paraphernalia, like books and pens, don’t matter to me. My home office doesn’t look like a very inspired workspace either (though I don’t crouch in the bathroom to write a la Jen Lemen), but it doesn’t matter. The good stuff of the intellectual life is in the mind and heart. And also in the computer, which is why I do spend money on those.
And thanks for loaning me books! I’ve had a few days of lucidity and am craving new stuff to read.
I read Betty Friedan, Germaine Greer, and Simone de Bouviour yesterday, and was surprised to find mid-century feminist concerns so relevant to Christian women today. A college junior said to Friedan in the 1950s, “Maybe education is a liability. Even the brightest boys at home want just a sweet, pretty girl. Only sometimes I wonder how it would feel to be able to stretch and stretch and stretch, and learn all you want, and not have to hold yourself back.” I hear this over and over at Bethel. Friedan says young women have to face a crisis of identity, waking up to ask “Where am I…what am I doing here?”, in order to become fully human. The major obstacle in their way is the desire to avoid the struggle by subsuming their identity in a man’s, belonging to others as wife and mother instead of knowing the self.
The concerns of 1970s-90s feminism, including worker’s rights, globalization, and class issues, seem less relevant in my evangelical context. It’s sad, though typical, for evangelicals to work on issues that their secular counterparts worked on decades ago. At least in my areas – feminism, gender, homosexuality, and race, this is true. I’m eager to meet students where they’re at, and talk about fused identities and household roles, but I’m also eager to push forward to some of the more global concerns.
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Oh sister Jenell, we share the same problem. I find that my students are fascinated with those aspects of feminism that critically engage their own lives: their bodies, their sexuality, the "double bind", parental and cultural expectations. They are eager to read and discuss what bears on them directly.
Getting them to think about Third World women is a bit more difficult -- even in a class that is barely 50% white. Fortunately, my course title is Women in American Society, so I can be forgiven a certain amount of myopia. Or so I imagine. -
Most of us "oldtimers" have discovered that to search for one's self is to become fully human. Unfortunately, to become fully human is a state of depravity. In seeking Christ we not only find Him, we find our own identity.
Be strong Jenell and lean on Him. Now the question is, how can we both weak and strong?By , at 11:42 AM
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Hi Jenell, Dana here.
Phyllis linked to this blog post today. It's a very Big Idea; it speaks on an individual level but also be brought to bear on so much.
http://farolitos.blogspot.com/2005/05/chump-and-bump.html
God bless you as you wait and think and become, this day.
D.By , at 4:37 PM
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i spring for good pens.
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just a general 'thank you' for being interested in the historically 'un'compatable worlds of feminism and christianity.
so glad the world is beginning to accept both studies and are not seeing them as so mutually exclusive of each other. thank you for pushing that agenda. i'm new to your sight but will enjoy watching, reading, and anxiously awaiting your next blog and contributions.
from a non-bra-burning-can-still-attempt-to-look-good-while-touting-feminine-issues-without-selling-myself-out-fully-thankful-to-christ-for-making-me-a-female-co-conspirator-in-christ,
greta -
As for pens, I collect them, and still write in nice journals to help me develop new concepts and innovative ideas, while at the same time blog on a regular basis. However, I didn't catch this fad until I met a Korean a few years ago who also collected pens, and after living in Korea for over a year, I've also noticed that it is also big with the rich and educated Korean males.
By Ronald Aaron Krueger, at 6:52 PM






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How darling! Congrats and double blessings on you!
They are both beautiful!
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Jan, at 11:56 AM
Yayyyy!!!
Congratulations :)
They are both so beautiful!
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Chicken Pax, at 11:13 AM
Congratulations, they're handsome!!
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